Hockeyplaya44 Posted July 23, 2011 Posted July 23, 2011 I used to work in a nightclub and still get the photo albums from the big nights on my facebook news feeds because a lot of my friends are tagged in them all the time. It is extremely rare for me to see a girl that I would consider my type exactly. I don't just mean a 10/10 so to speak, but someone you just get a good feeling about from looking at. Sometimes the girls are not necessarily amazing looking in a conventional sense but they just convey a vibe that is attractive to me. I would say I see one of these girls every few months. Is it like this for anyone else or am I crazy? Anyway, I happened to see a girl like this in one of the albums yesterday. She is tagged in the photo so I am able to go to her profile. I would like to have an opportunity to meet this girl. I am fully aware a cold approach on facebook is hardly an ideal situation. I could start going to the club again, but having worked there for over a year I know the regulars and have NEVER seen her there before. I know that if I recieved a message from a girl on facebook saying she thought I was attractive and wanted to get to know me, I would be wary, but accepting and open-minded and would see what she was like. I know girls are a lot different when it comes to these things so I was wondering, would messaging her on facebook be an okay idea, or should I just hope to bump into her one day? Thanks!
joeLove Posted July 24, 2011 Posted July 24, 2011 The best way to know a person ... is to see and talk to them in real life. Pictures and photos don't speak. Because someone looks good in a pic doesn't mean he/she has any connection to you whatsoever. I would see if there are mutual friends, and find out where she hangs out and "accidentally" hang out there as well and go from there.
Author Hockeyplaya44 Posted July 24, 2011 Author Posted July 24, 2011 Yeah, we have 0 mutual friends haha.
joeLove Posted July 24, 2011 Posted July 24, 2011 See if she might know a friend of a friend ... or try to find out, where she works ... and stuff like that. I'm sure there are ways for you to run into her ... From my perspective, I would never friend someone I don't know and never respond to a message on a social network from someone I don't know.
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