SIGNALFREQ Posted July 23, 2011 Posted July 23, 2011 I had been with my ex for over 3 years, we were already hanging on by a string. We were sexually active in April, then some Facebook drama happened in May and she was gone. She cut me off as if I was dead weight. before this happened, I had never experienced the pain of a break up, I guess this was God's way of humbling me as a man. She needed me financially and I needed her mentally, emotionally, and physically. I have sought God and counseling IOT cope with this pain.
wilsonx Posted July 23, 2011 Posted July 23, 2011 Sorry man, it hurts... we are all going through this right now. Looks like you have a plan laid out to help you cope which is a good thing. It does get easier with time. One thing I would suggest to help in the process is to block her from facebook and go complete no contact. Do not answer phone calls texts emails from her or her friends. If you decide to go the no contact route, remove her friends from facebook as well. You will hear about no contact but the only thing it is truly good for is to help you heal... It does not matter what your ex thinks about it. If you have any questions comments concerns feel free to ask around trust me you will find someone better that just wont cut and run.
wilsonx Posted July 23, 2011 Posted July 23, 2011 haha, i truly hate facebook. I remember my ex looking through hundreds of pictures a day of people partying and having fun before I caught her with a coworker at a bar. thats going to be one of my new boundaries, someone that enjoys facebook as much as me
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