mackin80 Posted July 23, 2011 Posted July 23, 2011 Became friends with a woman six months ago. We got along great, A LOT in common, share the same values and seem to have the same long term goals. After about four months I said I had feelings for her. She said no cause she would be moving away (other side of the country) at the end of the summer. She was also seeing someone else for the first three months, nothing serious though. We continued to be friends and spend time together. Within a month she realized she could not move and came to me and said lets give it a shot. After three dates (one month later) she said she felt we had no chemistry and wasn't sure about what she wanted right now, so I got dumped. We both have a lot going on right now and she has baggage from previous relationships. She says that she likes being alone a lot. She has been depressed about her career/future. When she is down, she is very distant to everyone, but when we would get together, first as friends then as dating she seemed to show a lot of interest. Confused as to whether or not it could ever work on her end. I know how I feel, to me she is facinating, beyond the bs. I have a hard time completely believing the "no spark". I know NC is the way to go, but I would like to leave the door open as I step in case there is something there. And you know there is NC and outta sight, outta mind at the same time. Opinions?
Mr. Slim Posted July 23, 2011 Posted July 23, 2011 Well she's already rejected you twice, and flatly stated you had no chemistry. How often do you think happy endings are told with that prologue? Frankly, I would keep her as a friend, sounds like she could use somebody keeping an eye on her. But put the rest out of your mind for now.
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