Deroy Posted July 23, 2011 Posted July 23, 2011 I love my wife but we married too quick .I will not go into too much detail but too say that we both need councelling .We both have past really bad relationships and we both are needy in our one way .Today was one of those really of days .I got a bbm message from my wife saying why would i post a pic of her in her wedding dress and (actually say she wasnt a princess she is my queen ) baaaaaaaaaaaaaa.Wrong thing too say since she is hurting right now aw what am I not suppose to express my feeling anymore while we try too heal this marriage .There are mountains to climd too make it work emotional,Physical and sexual abuse from our past too deal with .Am I suppose to be a robot and say nothing at all .Im so confused
ScienceGal Posted July 24, 2011 Posted July 24, 2011 Deroy, please seek counseling. I would recommend individual and then couples counseling. Having a professional help you both sort out and understand WHY you feel certain things can be very helpful. Best of luck.
Author Deroy Posted August 6, 2011 Author Posted August 6, 2011 Thanks we are doing just that getting individual help then marriage councelling while we give each other space apart .
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