quietGuy13 Posted July 22, 2011 Posted July 22, 2011 I wonder if any girl would like me but it seems most girls like bad guys. or guys that we ar pants that are falling down their a**. hehehe. I've just been feeling like i will never be liked by anyone. Everywhere i see women when i go walking in the street, they're just these women who talk alot and like guys who are the same way. It does seem in the end nice guys do lose. the only nice guys that might win are the ones who are engineers or whatever. but simple(non tech) nice guys are not attractive to women.
verhrzn Posted July 22, 2011 Posted July 22, 2011 It has absolutely NOTHING to do with girls liking bad guys. SOME girls like bad guys. But the majority, do not. The reason you probably don't get any girls interested in you is because you don't make any bold move to demonstrate you ARE interested. By this I mean saying to a girl," I like you. Want to have coffee sometime?" There are thousands of threads out there detailing how "being nice" is NOT the issue. Read those and look deeper.
robdrm32 Posted July 22, 2011 Posted July 22, 2011 Women like confidence and self-assured men. The classic "nice guy" doesn't have these qualities. (like myself) It's not that they like bad boys, they like the guys who exhibit confidence and dominance. Jerks and bad boys are flowing with that energy. You can be a nice guy and still get girls. You have to be nice and confident. There are times in my life where I had that confidence and women flocked to me, but i was still a nice guy. Women want a gentleman. When you break that word down what do you get? Gentle Man. Nice guys often aren't manly enough and thats the problem. I am one of those guys trying to work through that problem. So dont give up.
udolipixie Posted July 22, 2011 Posted July 22, 2011 I wonder if any girl would like me but it seems most girls like bad guys. or guys that we ar pants that are falling down their a**. hehehe. Ever wonder if maybe you're just attracted to or attracting the types that like bad guys? I've just been feeling like i will never be liked by anyone. Everywhere i see women when i go walking in the street, they're just these women who talk alot and like guys who are the same way. the only nice guys that might win are the ones who are engineers or whatever. but simple(non tech) nice guys are not attractive to women. It does seem in the end nice guys do lose. So nice guys lose because you attract/are attracted to bad guy lovers & women have the audacity to perhaps prefer guys talkative like themselves & women aren't attracted to simple non tech guys. So what responsibility for your dating life are you owning up to? Sorry but being a nice person doesn't entitle you to a gf. She's not going to date a guy because he's a nice person she'll date him because she finds him sexually appealing, physically attractive, interesting, enjoyable to be around with, and he treats her well. So what lead you to think being a nice person is all that is required to have a gf?
P&R Posted July 22, 2011 Posted July 22, 2011 Awesome, thread number 1454343453548844345343543543 on this topic.
betterdeal Posted July 22, 2011 Posted July 22, 2011 I know it can seem that way, but think about the millions of happy, quiet couples and families out there. Some people, generally the ones who are out and about a lot, go for quantity, and some people, generally the ones who are at happy at home together, go for quality. You just need to socialise in things and places you like, and that's not necessarily in a bar. Think, what is it you'd like to get from having a girlfriend. Okay, sex, sure, but what else? It's about finding someone who lives life in a way, at a pace, you like, and that is like yours. And when you meet someone like that, don't be afraid to show you interest in her. Talk, listen, get to know, share humour and ideas, smile, show her the great qualities that make you you. If she's interested, it'll show. Don't worry about what everyone else is up to. Just be yourself.
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