lostmysoulmate Posted July 22, 2011 Posted July 22, 2011 Since my ex broke up with me 3 months ago I've made all the mistakes trying to get him back. I've slept with him, constantly called and text him and acted desperate and pathetic. I've pushed him away. Am I too late to go no contact to get him back? I'm worried he's already moved on
Philosoraptor Posted July 22, 2011 Posted July 22, 2011 If you go no contact then do not do it in an attempt to get them back. Do it for yourself.
HeartOfAPhoenix Posted July 22, 2011 Posted July 22, 2011 well let's look at the pro's and con's of staying in contact with your ex... Pros: 1.) You get to see/talk to your ex. 2.) You fill that sexual desire (to an extent) 3.) familiarity Cons: 1.) You don't get your ex just to you. 2.) They might get into a relationship. 3.) You help them heal. 4.) You get used by them sexually and emotionally. 5.) They have no reason to come back because you are always there. 6.) It holds you back because you wait for them. 7.) YOU CAN'T HEAL ok now the pros and cons of No Contact... Pros: 1.) You get to heal 2.) They can come back, but chances are next to none. 3.) You can improve your life 4.) You don't need to worry about what they are thinking. 5.) You get more you time. 6.) You don't need to answer to anyone. 7.) You can find new romance. 8.) did I mention you get to heal? Cons: 1.) you wonder what your ex is doing. You choose, it's never too late for No Contact. Just don't expect him to come running back.
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