dubzz92 Posted July 22, 2011 Posted July 22, 2011 So for starters lets just say before I got into a relationship with my ex Tony, I never really had been a in a REAL relationship. I always just had a friend with benefits, I'm not "out there" or anything I was just never was the one to get into a relationship, because I was to afriad of getting attached and hurt. Which is exactly what happened when I finally did get into a relationship (with tony). Tony hit on me on Facebook (yes , I know that should of been my first clue), and I really didn't wanna hang out with him or anything because I knew that he has just recently gotten out of a relationship. And I was not about to be anybodys rebound girl. But he reassured me that it was over between them and all that good stuff (I forgot to remember,guys always tell women what they want to hear). The next day I went and picked him up from his house and we just drove around and did dum stuff. So after that we just started hanging out all the time and he kept telling me how he was really falling for me and everything esle. And ive never had this kind of attention by a guy to i was already head over heels. So we just kept hanging out and textn for about 3 weeks and then we finally had our first kiss and it was the cutest thing. We were out in the country and there was this turn that lead to a stop sign and we kept argueing about if the stop sign what there or not. So if the stop sign was there then I had to kiss him but if it wasnt then I didnt have to kiss him. So of course the stop sign was there and thats wear we had our first kiss. After that about two weeks later he finally asked me out and I said yes and everything was going so good we were with eachother all the time and I didnt worry about him cheating on me or anything until. After about a month he started saying that I was dating all these guys behind his bad and he brought up one of my friends that when to prison and the only person that would of told him about that would be his ex to he was obivoulsy still talking to her.But I let all the blow over because I really liked him so i just kept my comments to myself. And him saying I was with other guys turned into an everyday commment, then one week i got a phone call from my friends saying that he cheated on me with one of her friends from school. And its like why would my bestfriend lie to me about something like that. So of course i asked him and he said no , but i knew he was lieing and i stay with him anyways. After i confronted him , things were kind of going back to normal and then he started acting all funny again he kept ignoring me and everytime i wanted to hang out he always had something to do. So on the night when we finally got to hang out I went to his house and we just watched movies and then he kept telling me i had to go home by 11 because his mom was going to bitch sinces she been at work all day. And he had to leave for chicago the next morning (which i let him borrow 40 bucks). So i believed him and went home and told him to text me when he made it to chicago. The next day i waited for his text and still no text and then I texted him and got no reply back. So I finally went and checked my facebook and I looked on his sisters status and it said "Chilln with my mom Tony and stepdad" and thats when I knew something was up. He was supposed to be in Chicago but he was at his dads???. I finally just left him alone for twos day and then I went to check his facebook and he had a display picture of him and some girls and all of his update kept saying. Im falling and im falling hard, so i finally put two and two together and realized he left me. For some girl that lived out of town with her kid, and so i texted him and said you really could of just told me I asked you a thousand times if you wanted to be with me and all you had to do was say no. And all he texted back was yup. So he used me for money to spend on that girl and he just left me withouth reason and the day b4 he left me everything was fine. So that first time I put my heart into something this is what happens I dont think I will ever trust a man again!. I've never felt so dum in my life!, and now he lives out of town with this girl and her kid living a happy life. While im stuck here single and lonely doesnt that suckkk!
t_i Posted July 22, 2011 Posted July 22, 2011 Oh thats awful! He seems very selfish to use you for his own gain.... Just think - this other girl has a kid, and if he's to immature to be able to stick to a relationship with you or even have any of the fundamentals that are in a nice person (honest, caring) How will he cope with being a step father to another person? Looks like you dodged a bullet. Go see your friends and go out and let them make you feel better. Start seeing men who will apresiate kindness.
mla110v Posted July 22, 2011 Posted July 22, 2011 chicky I understand 100 percent. I agree though that you are better off and really I just bet he will come running back to you but you gotta know to not fall for it!
Author dubzz92 Posted July 22, 2011 Author Posted July 22, 2011 Thanks these replies really made me feel better. And yes I kno there will be a guy out there some day for me! Its just the waiting that drives me insane, and makes me think about my ex. I wish never bad on people what I hope one day he realizes what he did to me was completely wrong. And that pain sticks him right in the heart, I would never want any1 to feel what I have felt behind him!.
Author dubzz92 Posted July 22, 2011 Author Posted July 22, 2011 And if he ever came running back (which I dont think he would), I would completely shut him out. Letting someone back in after they have disrespected you and hurt you . Would just show lack of respect for my self!.
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