jojo33 Posted April 25, 2004 Posted April 25, 2004 [font=times new roman][/font][color=violet][/color][color=red][/color]i liked this guy for 2 years and i'm in love with him and he means the world to me.....we started doing stuff about a year ago and we were together ever since....about a month ago i cheated on him with his cousin!!!.... it was the stupidest thing i've ever done.....and he found out and we broke up and he won't talk to me or anything and i love him so much and i don't know what i was thinking doing that to him....please help me get him back...i don't know what to do.. .i've tried everything...i even tried killing myself cause i can't seem to live w/ out him.....please i'll do anything for him....i dont' know what to do....i slit my wrists and he found out and i so scared that i'll lose him forever ....i need to get him back before it's to late
Miss_Prolixity Posted April 25, 2004 Posted April 25, 2004 Hi Jojo, Losing someone we love can be an extremely painful time. And sometimes it can make us do or think things we otherwise wouldn't even consider. I am sure your ex is very upset right now and needs personal time to adjust. His avoidance of you is probably because he needs time to heal his own wounds. Being betrayed by someone you love and trust takes a huge toll on your mind as well as your body. IMO, I would give him some ample time alone before you try to make amends. Also, if you're harming yourself physically, perhaps it's time to seek out some medical attention. No one is worth taking your own life. The pain is so fresh right now, that it's hard to imagine that things can get better. But, in time they do. It's like taking baby steps, every new day is a little more progress than the day before. Please talk to a professional about your suicidal thoughts and feelings. There is help out there.
ringo0206 Posted April 25, 2004 Posted April 25, 2004 I was in your shoes a few weeks ago... I broke up with my girlfriend of a year and a half and had sex with a girl i didn't even like. I ended up getting back with the girl that i love, and she went on to break up with me for someone else. At first i thought about killing myself everyday, because it seemed like she had died, so i wanted to too. I went on some anti-depressants, and i still think about her every day. Just try to keep as busy as what you can, and talk to as many people as you can, that's how i got thru it. I would talk to everyone at my work and let them know what happened. It's been 5 weeks since i last saw or talked to her, but i feel like i'm getting a little better and that life will go on. You should try to see a doctor to see if you can go on prozac or some other anti-depressant, it won't work right away, but it will give you some good parts to your day. I now never think about killing myself because i realize how much fun i have, maybe not everyday, but atleast every week i have a day where i laugh and realize it would not have been worth it, especially once i find someone new. It is very hard, but you will get through it and it will make you a stronger person in the end since you have been there and know what it's like to lose someone that you love so much. good luck!!!!
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