gamechanger Posted July 21, 2011 Posted July 21, 2011 i dont get it my ex and i of 6 years broke up in march, it took me a month to go NC (i did the whole begging trying to get her back thing and tried being her friend) since then she has only sent random texts. i know now she has a new bf. she still hangs around some of my friends and she comes up in conversation, why is it that even hearing of her when its brought up in conversation make me feel so ****ty? i havent seen her since the first of may. i cant even imagine what would happen if i ran into her somewhere with her new bf. that **** would tear me up inside. how long does it take to get over something like this... my life is never better, just got out of school go a new job making awesome money yet this whole situation makes me feel tiny and useless and i just what to be over it... any suggestions or ideas? im at my wits end and need a change or something to happen...
0hpenelope Posted July 22, 2011 Posted July 22, 2011 Perhaps you just need a change of scenery? Take a trip when you can afford to with your awesome money and enjoy it. If I had awesome money, I would love to tour Europe! The countries I want to visit are so close to each other. That's what I'd do. Take myself out of the familiar and see, immerse myself into something new.
HeartOfAPhoenix Posted July 22, 2011 Posted July 22, 2011 ^^^ that or... Stop worrying about seeing her. You might see her again and realize you are no longer attracted to her, or you may see her again and feel some attraction but it won't all be there. And there's always the chance that you may never see her again so stop worrying about what might happen and start focusing on what you know will happen.
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