luvbug89 Posted July 21, 2011 Posted July 21, 2011 It happened like this: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t286430/ He's contacted me twice while I remained NC. We've been broken up since July 3 and I haven't spoke to him since. The last time he txt me was last Thursday and he wrote me this: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t287103/ So, today, I looked over a Twitter account -- to be honest, it was a girl he used to mess with before me (or maybe even while were together, I'm now starting to believe) I only glimpse at it, because even though they don't talk (or so he had me believe) I would usually see tweets that were sort of directed at him. I over-analyze alot of things so maybe this could be nothing at all even relevant to my ex-- but things are just TOO coincidental. Anyways, after glimpsing at her posts, she reveals that she went to Chicago for the weekend. My ex, who does business trips, was apparently in Chicago from 11-21 this month. Now how strange/coincidental is that? The girl flies from NYC to Chi for a weekend? She wasn't there for business, or family. Honestly, I may be over looking this but I feel it in my gut y'all. I swear I can feel it that he actually flew her for a weekend trip. Do you know how much this breaks my heart? Like, with the txts he was sending me and how he was missing me I would've NEVER guessed this would have happened.. Ii understand that he is no longer my concern, and I shouldn't be hurt by it since we are broken up. But, me being such a conservative LADY, I don't move on from relationships within weeks of a breakup. I don't hookup with randoms, I have never and plan to never have a one night stand. It just breaks my heart that he would fly her over (IF this was the case) and already start moving on from me? I feel hurt, betrayed and so disgusted. Any insight on this or am I trippin? Is he really trying to move on from me with this girl or was he just wanting a lay? I haven't cried about this yet but.. All I feel is pain in my heart and my stomach right now.
t_i Posted July 22, 2011 Posted July 22, 2011 Do you want to know? Ignorance is bliss. It will help you get over it sooner if you didnt have the paid to know he's moving on. He may or may not be seeing her, but I think it may be best if you forgot about it. Find someone new yourself, you don't need him! If he loved you enough he'd make it work regardless of his commitments. You deserve better.
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