atloss4love Posted July 21, 2011 Posted July 21, 2011 I know that time heals everything but I wish someone would invent a remote that would turn off your thoughts. I am so tired of thinking about him, I have wasted a very large amount of my time let alone let my house go by the waste side.
TheHurtProcess Posted July 21, 2011 Posted July 21, 2011 If only it were that easy. However, sometimes you just have to force the memories out of your head. I do it all the time. Just tell yourself that this person is no longer worth your grief and then banish them from your thoughts. Also, you do have to take some time to mourn, so pick a small amount of time during the day, maybe 12-20 minutes in the morning or late at night to grieve. Then for the rest of the day, exile them!
geegirl Posted July 21, 2011 Posted July 21, 2011 I know that time heals everything but I wish someone would invent a remote that would turn off your thoughts. I am so tired of thinking about him, I have wasted a very large amount of my time let alone let my house go by the waste side. Time alone does not help you heal. It is what you do with that time. Just by mentioning that your house has gone by the wayside is telling.
TheHurtProcess Posted July 21, 2011 Posted July 21, 2011 Time alone does not help you heal. It is what you do with that time. Just by mentioning that your house has gone by the wayside is telling. Very true. If you were to just fast forward to a year from now, because you haven't yet dealt with the pain, you'd have to deal with this then.
RuinedLife Posted July 21, 2011 Posted July 21, 2011 I know that time heals everything but I wish someone would invent a remote that would turn off your thoughts. I am so tired of thinking about him, I have wasted a very large amount of my time let alone let my house go by the waste side. Yes, I wish someone would come up with that too! Or an amnesia pill or something.. anything to stop the thoughts. To stop me thinking about my ex all the time Time hasn't done much for me either. True I've been obsessing a LOT and have tried to cling on to false hope and keep in contact with my ex, but still I haven't seen him for nearly 7 months now, so surely I should start to forget him. I mean how can my mind keep coming up with these thoughts and cycling them round no matter what I do. I'd give anything to turn them off. To turn off my love for my ex.
geegirl Posted July 22, 2011 Posted July 22, 2011 Yes, I wish someone would come up with that too! Or an amnesia pill or something.. anything to stop the thoughts. To stop me thinking about my ex all the time Time hasn't done much for me either. True I've been obsessing a LOT and have tried to cling on to false hope and keep in contact with my ex, but still I haven't seen him for nearly 7 months now, so surely I should start to forget him. I mean how can my mind keep coming up with these thoughts and cycling them round no matter what I do. I'd give anything to turn them off. To turn off my love for my ex. How can you forget him when you keep engaging yourself with him. Eventhough you haven't seen him, you still contact him. How do you forget when you keep putting him in the forefront of your mind and heart? What you are trying to detach from, you are engaging. Backwards. Hence you will not detach. Your thoughts will keep cycling around him because you choose to engage. Contact keeps the feelings on simmer. Keyword: Engage. You can't just wish for it all to go away. You have to do the work. First step, commitment for absolutely no contact.
JosieJoe Posted July 22, 2011 Posted July 22, 2011 Time does heal alot, but never everything. Go out and meet new people, have new experiences! That's what heals things the fastest!! (for me atleast). New memories push out old ones
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