Cinnamon Posted July 21, 2011 Posted July 21, 2011 How should a normal guy/girl react on rejection? Should he/she send back a note which states that he/she respects her/his desicion and wishes her/him well? Should he/she send no answer? Should he/she send an angry note to offend the other person? What kind of people would not accept rejection?
one goal Posted July 21, 2011 Posted July 21, 2011 Here is my reply to the mean girl who rejected me. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t288575/
zengirl Posted July 21, 2011 Posted July 21, 2011 How should a normal guy/girl react on rejection? Should he/she send back a note which states that he/she respects her/his desicion and wishes her/him well? Should he/she send no answer? Should he/she send an angry note to offend the other person? What kind of people would not accept rejection? Well, what kind of rejection? Like, I saw you on an online dating site, wrote you, and then you said No Thanks rejection or like we dated for a year and you broke up with me rejection?
Author Cinnamon Posted July 21, 2011 Author Posted July 21, 2011 Well, what kind of rejection? Like, I saw you on an online dating site, wrote you, and then you said No Thanks rejection or like we dated for a year and you broke up with me rejection? I meant the rejection after dating for a while, or a short-term or a long-term relationship.
zengirl Posted July 21, 2011 Posted July 21, 2011 I meant the rejection after dating for a while, or a short-term or a long-term relationship. Then I would expect a discussion, and I'd say my peace and suss out why, I suppose. I've only had one guy try to dump me without having a conversation, and I basically texted him, "Wow, way to be a coward," which is petty I guess and it was many years ago, so I was a lot younger. Now, I'm not sure what I'd do in that circumstance, but if I've been in a relationship with a guy, I expect he will have a conversation with me --- as I would with any guy --- while doing the breakup/rejection thing.
Author Cinnamon Posted July 21, 2011 Author Posted July 21, 2011 Then I would expect a discussion, and I'd say my peace and suss out why, I suppose. I've only had one guy try to dump me without having a conversation, and I basically texted him, "Wow, way to be a coward," which is petty I guess and it was many years ago, so I was a lot younger. Now, I'm not sure what I'd do in that circumstance, but if I've been in a relationship with a guy, I expect he will have a conversation with me --- as I would with any guy --- while doing the breakup/rejection thing. What should they talk about? What would you tell a guy who you reject? What would you want to hear from a guy who rejects you?
rafallus Posted July 21, 2011 Posted July 21, 2011 Why? You rejected this little fella already and he reacted? Or are you still wondering, how to? Here is my reply to the mean girl who rejected me.
zengirl Posted July 21, 2011 Posted July 21, 2011 What should they talk about? What would you tell a guy who you reject? What would you want to hear from a guy who rejects you? If it's a relationship, you discuss its end. You say (succinctly and basically) that it's over, perhaps why it's over, and that you're sorry for any pain you've caused. That's the experience I've generally had with breakups. You just discuss its end as an adult. If it's not yet a relationship, that's different of course. I still think you have to be straight up with the person, but it doesn't necessarily mean a direct conversation with both parties involved.
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