one goal Posted July 21, 2011 Posted July 21, 2011 So this morning out of the blues she sends me this text message: "Hey. I really don't think I wanna hangout at all. Your a nice guy but I'm not gonna change my mind." Why didn't she just tell me that in person in class yesterday? was kinda cowardish. I'm upset! She hates me when I did nothing to her. She's single but wont even go out to be friends. I don't even want to go to class on Monday. Would rather screw my group over and they get a bad grade. Hate doing that, but I dont want to be around her right now she hurt my feelings. Here is my reply back to her. "I can understand. It's okay if u dont want to or not your type. It happens all the time. Im used to it now" "Hard to meet girls at "blank college"
Truly Lost Posted July 21, 2011 Posted July 21, 2011 Don't screw over your group and yourself because of your bruised ego. Finding a "spark" with someone is really difficult. She just didn't have that "spark" with you. It's really crummy that she told you in a text, but at least she told you. Would it have been better if she ignored/avoided you completely? That hurts a lot more. At least she put a period at the end of the sentence for you. Now you can move on to someone else without having wasted any time wondering what's going on with this girl.
rafallus Posted July 21, 2011 Posted July 21, 2011 She's single but wont even go out to be friends.http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ER34ZF5cixQ Seriously, I know you're trolling, but had you been honest about your intentions and not BSing around about "friends" thing, maybe you'd earn a "successful troll" badge.
Author one goal Posted July 21, 2011 Author Posted July 21, 2011 Don't screw over your group and yourself because of your bruised ego. Finding a "spark" with someone is really difficult. She just didn't have that "spark" with you. It's really crummy that she told you in a text, but at least she told you. Would it have been better if she ignored/avoided you completely? That hurts a lot more. At least she put a period at the end of the sentence for you. Now you can move on to someone else without having wasted any time wondering what's going on with this girl. How would she know what Im like if she never gave me a shot?
Author one goal Posted July 21, 2011 Author Posted July 21, 2011 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?t=288422&page=2 I feel kinda sorry for that guy.
oaks Posted July 21, 2011 Posted July 21, 2011 So this morning out of the blues she sends me this text message: "Hey. I really don't think I wanna hangout at all. Your a nice guy but I'm not gonna change my mind." Why didn't she just tell me that in person in class yesterday? She told you a month ago that she wasn't interested. I (and many, many others) told you to accept that and move on. You've just wasted a month of your 'dating' life when you could've been looking for someone else. I'm not sure why you come here asking for advice which you never follow. Waste of your time, waste of our time. Not even entertaining any more. Mad? You're crazy.
somedude81 Posted July 21, 2011 Posted July 21, 2011 Honestly she's been very patient with you. But you kept pushing and pushing. Most girls would just give you the cold shoulder but she was better than that. Respect her decision. And don't screw over your group because a girl isn't interested in you.
one goal's mother Posted July 21, 2011 Posted July 21, 2011 I told you to stop this nonsense a long time ago :mad:
Author one goal Posted July 21, 2011 Author Posted July 21, 2011 Honestly she's been very patient with you. But you kept pushing and pushing. Most girls would just give you the cold shoulder but she was better than that. Respect her decision. And don't screw over your group because a girl isn't interested in you. What do you mean give the cold shoulder?
Mark1 Posted July 21, 2011 Posted July 21, 2011 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?t=288422&page=2 I feel kinda sorry for that guy. Obvious troll is obvious.
somedude81 Posted July 21, 2011 Posted July 21, 2011 What do you mean give the cold shoulder? Completely ignoring you and possibly saying rude things to you. This girl was obviously trying to be nice without leading you on. And I know you're thinking it, but she has not been mean to you at all. Just let it go.
Citizen Erased Posted July 21, 2011 Posted July 21, 2011 Gee, who didn't see that one coming. You know, apart from everyone that has replied to you. She is the one that should be mad, not you. You need to learn to let go.
Lucky_One Posted July 21, 2011 Posted July 21, 2011 Her status as "single" does not mean that she has to go hang out with any man who asks her. She has a choice to date someone, or not to date someone. She told you a month ago that she did not want to go out with you. Why are you persistent in insisting that a woman should go out with you merely because she is single?
Author one goal Posted July 21, 2011 Author Posted July 21, 2011 Her status as "single" does not mean that she has to go hang out with any man who asks her. She has a choice to date someone, or not to date someone. She told you a month ago that she did not want to go out with you. Why are you persistent in insisting that a woman should go out with you merely because she is single? Well the last time I asked her out last week I just said I wanted to take her out to lunch, or on a day before school starts go out and do something together one day since I might never see her again. She still doesn't even want to do that. Why doesnt she want to just hangout one day with me? Why does she consider it a date?
zengirl Posted July 21, 2011 Posted July 21, 2011 Well the last time I asked her out last week I just said I wanted to take her out to lunch, or on a day before school starts go out and do something together one day since I might never see her again. She still doesn't even want to do that. Why doesnt she want to just hangout one day with me? Why does she consider it a date? Because she knows you're into her, you're creeping her out, and it's awkward.
RovingReporter Posted July 21, 2011 Posted July 21, 2011 Well the last time I asked her out last week I just said I wanted to take her out to lunch, or on a day before school starts go out and do something together one day since I might never see her again. She still doesn't even want to do that. Why doesnt she want to just hangout one day with me? Why does she consider it a date? she's playing hard to get obv. Girls who are interested in a guy do this all the time. Find out where she lives and just kind of show up there one day.
oaks Posted July 21, 2011 Posted July 21, 2011 Why doesnt she want to just hangout one day with me? Why does she consider it a date? Maybe she already has enough friends and you just didn't make a good enough impression on her for her to care to see you again. Your second question has been asked and answered many times... you have to read the replies to your own threads sometimes!
oaks Posted July 21, 2011 Posted July 21, 2011 she's playing hard to get obv. Girls who are interested in a guy do this all the time. Find out where she lives and just kind of show up there one day. Gak! Don't encourage him!
RovingReporter Posted July 21, 2011 Posted July 21, 2011 Gak! Don't encourage him! Its pretty obvious this guy is a troll OR a complete idiot. I think we all should encourage him to do the wrong thing and hopefully get him thrown in jail.
refurb Posted July 21, 2011 Posted July 21, 2011 Here is my reply back to her. "I can understand. It's okay if u dont want to or not your type. It happens all the time. Im used to it now" "Hard to meet girls at "blank college" YOU'RE DOING IT WRONG. A much better reply would have been "OK. No biggie." Any hint of desperation sends women running. You need to get into the mindset of asking women out and not giving a crap if they say no. I've asked women out, they say "no", I say "No problem", then act like nothing happened. The number of times they've come back around wondering "Who the hell is this guy? He must have options!". Hilarious! RF
Mme. Chaucer Posted July 22, 2011 Posted July 22, 2011 Quote: Originally Posted by one goal Well the last time I asked her out last week I just said I wanted to take her out to lunch, or on a day before school starts go out and do something together one day since I might never see her again. She still doesn't even want to do that. Why doesnt she want to just hangout one day with me? Why does she consider it a date? Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but NOBODY wants to hang out with a creepy, obnoxious stalker. Not even for five minutes.
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