jmurphy Posted July 21, 2011 Posted July 21, 2011 well to cut things short.. split up with GF prob about 6-7 weeks ago maybe 8.. We was arguing alot we been on and off for years. she wants to settle down ect.. which is fine i did too we just couldnt afford it. anyway like i said we split up and i went into NC. she text me a few times but im very stubborn (bad) anyway i saw her in the club last saturday with some guy and it got to me (jealousy! bad!) i text her in a drunken moment when she was leaving saying "have a good night" she replyed back to me saying what choice do i have?! i send her a kinda f*ck u message and left it at that. she text me late sunday night saying she just wants to make someone happy. anyway i went back NC but today i broke and checked her Facebook. profile picture with new guy.. and shes "in a relationship with xxxx" this hurt (im not friends with her on facebook) bit more digging (bad i know never again!) and guy shes seeing is younger shes nearly 25 hes like 20 or something and a student. i broke and texted her just.. nothing nasty or nothing about her new relationship.. just a message to say when can i get my stuff back (few items) i kno i shouldnt have broke NC and now i feel terrible.. I hate facebook and wont be checking it again! any insight:? thanks
PegNosePete Posted July 21, 2011 Posted July 21, 2011 Not sure what you're looking for insight on? You broke NC and it made you feel bad... so don't do it again Get your stuff back if you want. Or if it's not important just forget it. Then you'll have no reason to contact her ever again.
Author jmurphy Posted July 21, 2011 Author Posted July 21, 2011 just the situation really.. why she in a relationship so fast ect.. shes acting very weird
PegNosePete Posted July 21, 2011 Posted July 21, 2011 You need to think less about her and more about you. You are the most important person in your life after all. Obsessing about how weird she is or who she f*cks is not healthy for you. She can do what she wants. Forget about her and move on dude.
Author jmurphy Posted July 21, 2011 Author Posted July 21, 2011 just me i know this! i just cant get why people decide to jump into another relationship very soon after.. its pretty messed up
Nohbody Posted July 21, 2011 Posted July 21, 2011 Women tend to mature faster than guys (or so my 8th grade health class taught me), so if she's dating a younger guy you can bet dollars to donuts that it's not a long term thing (at the very least a 20 year old guy is probably not going to want the same things she wants). Like everyone else has said, you put your hand on the burner and it got burnt. Stop checking. When it doesn't work out with this dude she's with, she might try to contact you, she might not. What you do in the meantime is up to you.
Author jmurphy Posted July 21, 2011 Author Posted July 21, 2011 thanks dude.. love the whiston churchill quote on your signature! top guy! agree in what your saying.. i wont be burnt again! and take things as it comes.. shes constantly changing her fb profile picture.. she knows ill pick up on it.. its either one of her self or one with her and him.. always the same pic every few days. im not biting any more!
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