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Okay, so her and me go to wonderland together, like her mom and my mom are friends, and she's my age, she's not like a slut wearing all the extra crap, she's normal, like not too hot for an average person, and not to ugly for an average person. But for me she's perfect! Perfect personality, we're both 14, and she goes a different school than me. But she's REALLY shy, I mean she rarely talks around, but when we're in the waiting lines for the rides, my brother and sister are there, and her sister is there, so I crack a joke and she laughs, even when my brother gives me a reversal diss. One time on a ride, she was in line with my brother for the seat behind me, and I was in line for the seat in front alone, and when we were about to board the ride, she switched seats and sat beside me. Does this have to do anything? Any whenever my brothers and her sisters, go on some other rides and I don't go and she doesn't go either, so we both go on one ride and sit beside eachother, and she laughs at all my jokes.

 

So what do you think is this enough to prove that she likes me, or maybe she just does this to anyone? She is nice to everyone, but I think a little bit to me. Also how can I make her say that she likes me?

 

Also you all should know is that I'm well a bit overweight and she's skinny, will that make a difference?

 

Give me as many details as you can and I'll reply to any questions! Thanks!

 

Also wonderland is an amusement park where I live so there are roller coasters and stuff like a six flags park!

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Sounds to me like she likes you. Maybe you could ask her out to a movie or lunch or something. Don't wait too long, though, or she'll think you're not interested.

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i guess so, also she asked me today if I had a cellphone or not, and I said no because I didn't have one, and i took a picture of something today and it was with her moms phone and i told her to e-mail it to me and she said okay and i told her my e-mail and she says she doesn't have one! Lolz, so what could be one way that we could communicate? And when do you think would be a good time for me to tell her that she's pretty? Like when we're on a ride or when?

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Sounds to me like she likes you. Maybe you could ask her out to a movie or lunch or something. Don't wait too long, though, or she'll think you're not interested.

 

 

i guess so, also she asked me today if I had a cellphone or not, and I said no because I didn't have one, and i took a picture of something today and it was with her moms phone and i told her to e-mail it to me and she said okay and i told her my e-mail and she says she doesn't have one! Lolz, so what could be one way that we could communicate? And when do you think would be a good time for me to tell her that she's pretty? Like when we're on a ride or when?

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i guess so, also she asked me today if I had a cellphone or not, and I said no because I didn't have one, and i took a picture of something today and it was with her moms phone and i told her to e-mail it to me and she said okay and i told her my e-mail and she says she doesn't have one! Lolz, so what could be one way that we could communicate? And when do you think would be a good time for me to tell her that she's pretty? Like when we're on a ride or when?

Do you have a landline phone at home? I would suggest asking her if she'd like to catch a movie with you sometime. If she says yes, then ask for her phone number. Then call her the next day and set a time and place for the date. Don't tell her she's pretty. Play it a little cool at first, but do get that date going soon.

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Do you have a landline phone at home? I would suggest asking her if she'd like to catch a movie with you sometime. If she says yes, then ask for her phone number. Then call her the next day and set a time and place for the date. Don't tell her she's pretty. Play it a little cool at first, but do get that date going soon.

 

She doesn't have a cellphone eithier, and her and mom's are pretty strict! (Guess why their friends? Lol) So I don't think she can go on like a date alone to the movie theater, and further ideas?

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Ask her if she'd like to come over sometime and watch a movie. Then ask for her phone number. I'm sure she at least has a landline in her home. Ask her for the number. Then call her the next day to invite her over to watch a movie.

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Ask her if she'd like to come over sometime and watch a movie. Then ask for her phone number. I'm sure she at least has a landline in her home. Ask her for the number. Then call her the next day to invite her over to watch a movie.

 

if i called for her and someone else picked up then all hell would break loose, my mom would get pissed and so would her mom, any other ideas? sorry for bugging you this whole time, new to this stuff...:love:

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if i called for her and someone else picked up then all hell would break loose, my mom would get pissed and so would her mom, any other ideas? sorry for bugging you this whole time, new to this stuff...:love:

Why would they get mad? I think you should go for it. Ask your mother if that girl can come over to watch a movie. See what she says.

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Why would they get mad? I think you should go for it. Ask your mother if that girl can come over to watch a movie. See what she says.

 

the thing is that i'm muslim and well, it would be better if my parents and her parents didn't know because her parents are muslim, too, and i'm not allowed to have a gf but i'm not gonna be doing anything wrong, if you get me here,,:o:love:

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the thing is that i'm muslim and well, it would be better if my parents and her parents didn't know because her parents are muslim, too, and i'm not allowed to have a gf but i'm not gonna be doing anything wrong, if you get me here,,:o:love:

Well, if you're not allowed to have a girlfriend, then I guess you'll have to accept that and just enjoy her company when the two families get together.

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Well, if you're not allowed to have a girlfriend, then I guess you'll have to accept that and just enjoy her company when the two families get together.

 

how do i explain,,,, i know i'm not officially supposed to have one, but she seems so nice and everything and I want this to be more than just a friendship....but do you think there is anyway i can convince her to get an e-mail address without creeping her out? and getting her to add me??

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how do i explain,,,, i know i'm not officially supposed to have one, but she seems so nice and everything and I want this to be more than just a friendship....but do you think there is anyway i can convince her to get an e-mail address without creeping her out? and getting her to add me??

 

Dude, my parents and siblings are muslims and let me get one thing straight - If they find you with a girlfriend (especially at this age), it will NOT go down well. Friendship between Islamic parents is quite different, it's almost as if they're siblings. So if you had to date the girl you're talking about then..y'know, you should get the picture.

 

I'm sure she wouldn't mind giving her e-mail address to you, just straight up ask her for it. But really, you can't progress this relationship any further than that unless you want to face your parents.

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