emeraldcity Posted April 25, 2004 Posted April 25, 2004 Hi, For those of you who don't know my story my ex dumped me by email 9 months ago without any clear explanation and just took off. While he replied to some of my emails during the first three months, most of the time it was just to rub in how much better he was doing without me. 6 or so months of no contact, and I broke the silence and sent him an email just to see how he was going. He sent me one back the next day and it was friendly and nice. So I sent him another a week later. He didn't reply for three weeks so I had presumed he wasn't going to. Then I get sent a rather large email full of apologies and explanations. Now as I'm sure many of you know, it is hard to read these things objectively, when you have feelings involved. Its been a couple of weeks and I still don't know how to reply to it, because I don't know what it is he wants to hear. If any of you are willing, could I PM you the email (because i don't want to post it up here), and could I get some opinions? Thanks.
hART Posted April 26, 2004 Posted April 26, 2004 Tell him you forgive him and what you think about having a relationship with him. Being objective is good, so think of these things from that veiwpoint and talk from there. Be real with him, without overwelming him. Take action, be honest and don't let your emotions get in the way of what needs to be said. I can't tell you what to say, because I don't know him or you. Have confidence in your (if you don't already) and be concise (like your post). While this might be a message to tell you he wants you back, it might be something else. Don't worry if it is something else and say what needs to be said, nothing more and nothing less.
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