YoungT Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 I just saw a little item that reminded me of her at a gift shop, its a little pink shot glass (she collects them) i was thinking of adding it to her collection in her room and not telling her rather then presenting it to her, i feel like thats the better way to go. Advice?
donnamaybe Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 $4 is a small enough price this early in the game that it's not "creepy" for you to purchase that for her. But, IMO, it would be kinda creepy to just have it appear. Give it to her, and tell her when you saw it you thought of her. That kind of thing - the little stuff - is what us gals just LOVE!
Author YoungT Posted July 20, 2011 Author Posted July 20, 2011 Alright thanks, the first date "2 weeks ago" she mentioned she had a puppy so i brought over a few little dog treats for her, would another "gift" still be acceptable?
tigressA Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 I agree with Donna. It's a really cute idea and she'll love that you thought of her in that way. Buy it, and give it to her.
Author YoungT Posted July 20, 2011 Author Posted July 20, 2011 $4 is a small enough price this early in the game that it's not "creepy" for you to purchase that for her. But, IMO, it would be kinda creepy to just have it appear. Give it to her, and tell her when you saw it you thought of her. That kind of thing - the little stuff - is what us gals just LOVE! Thanks Donnamaybe, 1 more thing tho =/ last time i saw her i had brought over treats for her puppy, would you consider that a gift? and if so would that make bringing this gift the next time i see her to much? Thanks for your help, i really want things to work out haha so i gotta ask alot
donnamaybe Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 Thanks Donnamaybe, 1 more thing tho =/ last time i saw her i had brought over treats for her puppy, would you consider that a gift? and if so would that make bringing this gift the next time i see her to much? Thanks for your help, i really want things to work out haha so i gotta ask alotNah, I don't think it's too much. You just sound like a thoughtful, caring guy. But resist the urge to bring her something next time or she might think you feel you have to do that every time you see her, and then the gestures might seem manufactured instead of heartfelt. Know what I mean?
Dust Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 I think you should avoid worrying about things like this. If you want to buy her a present and you feel its being romantic then do it. The key is not to talk about the price, so don’t mention it was 4$ or 40$. The other key is to not buy the gift with any expectations. You come off as needy if the only reason you are buying the gift is her gratitude. If instead you are just buy the gift to be sweet and the joy of just getting her something then you’re doing it right. Remember don’t bring up money with a date like “this was only 4$” or “this is an expensive restaurant I’m taking you too.” Keep it social.
Eddie Edirol Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 Thanks Donnamaybe, 1 more thing tho =/ last time i saw her i had brought over treats for her puppy, would you consider that a gift? and if so would that make bringing this gift the next time i see her to much? Thanks for your help, i really want things to work out haha so i gotta ask alot Its too much. You already brought the dog food, which is nice, but if you do the shotglass, it will look a lil needy, like you need to win her affection. Save the shotglass for a month from now. Dont offer too much of yourself. You could slip and look desperate, and that will chip away at her attraction to you, then you will lose her and she wont tell you its because she lost interest because she felt like she didnt earn your heart and affection. You can keep collecting the thoughtful stuff, but space out the time you give it to her.
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