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How to make him realize I rejected him?


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He's back again. I blocked him on Facebook, now three days ago I get an e-mail to my student's adress which is easy to figure out for anyone who knows your first and last name. Urgh. It was very long, and he even wrote that he didn't know what I wanted from him. Hello? I told him at least four times that I don't want to get to know him, that I'm not interested and that I won't change my mind. It's so disrespectful. Doesn't he realize that he is making a fool of himself?

Yesterday, he approached me in the library and tried to have a conversation with me, so I told the woman who was working there if she could please help me make this guy understand that I do not want to talk to him. He started getting angry, telling me to go get some education. So she told him to immediately leave. He suddenly changed his tone and started being super sweet, telling me what a wonderful person I am, beautiful, intelligent, interesting. As if he knew me!! I never even spoke to him, other than me telling him to leave me alone. Eventually she hadhim removed from the library. Now I can study peacefully...

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One goal?

 

It must be exhausting to deal with creepers like this. Hope your peace lasts.

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You need to go to the authorities. That's the only way this will stop completely. Do you want him to keep approaching you in other places?? It's not like he's been banned from the library. When you go to the authorities you'll also have a witness (the woman in the library), not that you even need it but it always helps.

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Next time he comes up to you, simply tell him exactly why you are not interested in him romantically. "You are fat/ugly/short, I'm not going to date you", he will get the message quickly and realize there is nothing he can do to win your affection, he'll probably think you're a bitch but he'll be out of your hair.

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