Am I being too faorward? TIme to pull back a little?

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Ok so, I met this guy like 8 years ago. He was a friend of a friend and we clicked right away. But then we kinda drifted out of contact. Then about a year ago, I run into him again... He is the roommate of another friend of mine.

 

Last February it was my friends bday, and after the party, him and I hooked up for the night.

 

Lately I've been hanging out at my friend's place a lot, and he's been there. And I have developed a crush on him over the last few months. I haven't been shy about it either. I'm a blunt person and I tell it like it is. I've straight out told him I have the hots for him.

 

Last week one night I was over there sitting by him on the couch, and just on a whim, I reached over and took his hand. We sat there holding hands for a minute or so until his phone rang and he let go of my hand to answer it.

 

The next night I was there and him and I were joking back and forth and I said "Bite me!" He said "On the boob?" And I said "Yes, bite me on the boob." And he did. His other friend was sitting right there and his friend was like "Hey, when do I get to bite your boob?" I said "You don't. He does because I have the hots for him."

 

There's a huge house in that part of town that's for sale. I was joking around one other night about buying it. I told him he could live there with me and keep the yard looking good. (This place has a huge yard.) I said he keeps the yard looking good, and in return he gets all the sex he wants from me. He said "Sounds like a pretty good deal to me."

 

The last three nights I've been over there he has kissed me goodnight when I left too.

 

Saturday night we had a camp fire going over there and everyone left one by one until it was just him and I. He said "I wish I had my sleeping bag." I said "Oh yea?" And he said "Yea, it's one of those big ones that two people can fit in... We could lay down by the fire and get freaky." He kind of laughed when he said it, but so did I.

 

Then though, him and I sat by the fire talking until the sun came up. And when I was leaving he kissed me goodnight... This time the kiss was a little more passionate though. There was no tongue or anything, but it wasn't just a quick one.

 

So NOW my questions... Am I being too forward? Normally I am not like this. I have never been able to just blurt out stuff like this to a guy I like. I wonder if maybe I'm giving the wrong impression. I don't want him to think I"m a slut or something.

 

Now that I've been forward like this do you think I should tone it down a little?

 

And... based on our interactions... do you all think he likes me? I know he wants to hook up again. That's obvious. But I wonder if maybe it's more then that. It's been so long since I played this whole game... I feel like I'm in high school again, lol.

 

Thanks in advance!

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I wonder if maybe I'm giving the wrong impression. I don't want him to think I"m a slut or something.

 

I'm only speaking from personal accounts, so take my response with a grain of salt.

 

Normally, when I've met someone and spent time with them where that sort of topic is usually thrown around (constant sex talk), I assume that's all the person wants/shooting for.

 

More often that not, it turns out that way. If anything else, we loosely date for a few months until it fizzles out.

 

I guess it's one thing to be forward, but it's what you're being "forward" about.

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Yea... it's not like I have huge expectations. I just like him, I think he likes me. I know I want to hook up again... But I don't know if anything else will comes of it.