Mme. Chaucer Posted July 23, 2011 Posted July 23, 2011 Feign choking in class. She might perform the Heimlich Maneuver on you, which would yield physical contact as well as pity for your plight. Oh, shyte. I vowed I would not participate in these horrifying examples of what lurks in the mind of a stalker. And now, just look at me.
TuffCookieX Posted July 23, 2011 Posted July 23, 2011 These responses crack me up. You guys are hilarious. If one goal is serious, he MUST have severe asperger's syndrome. That's the only explanation I can think of. And I wonder how many girls try to get restraining orders? One goal... here's a girl who might be more in your league. http://bigmouthsonline.com/site/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/fat-girl-loves-cookies.jpg
oaks Posted July 23, 2011 Posted July 23, 2011 Oh, shyte. I vowed I would not participate in these horrifying examples of what lurks in the mind of a stalker. And now, just look at me. Pathetic. I'm very disappointed in you, Mme Chaucer. You've let yourself down. :p
EasyHeart Posted July 23, 2011 Posted July 23, 2011 Be nice to Onegoal. Everyone knows that pity and sympathy are the building blocks to every healthy relationship.
onegoal's conscience Posted July 23, 2011 Posted July 23, 2011 Set yourself on fire on her front lawn. He's already lit me on fire several times when I try to talk sense into him. I don't know why I even try anymore...
oaks Posted July 23, 2011 Posted July 23, 2011 Is there anything I can tell her that might get me some sympthy from her? Probably. Just tell her all about your posting history here. She'll probably feel very sorry for you. I don't think it'll make her want to date you, though. I have an idea for you that you may not have considered: Why don't you look for someone else?
dispatch3d Posted July 23, 2011 Posted July 23, 2011 I really don't see what he's doing wrong..... nottt....
Author one goal Posted July 23, 2011 Author Posted July 23, 2011 Probably. Just tell her all about your posting history here. She'll probably feel very sorry for you. I don't think it'll make her want to date you, though. I have an idea for you that you may not have considered: Why don't you look for someone else? School is out next Wed. Also no other hot girls I see in class. Ill have to wait until late aug to meet girls when I go to the university.
rafallus Posted July 23, 2011 Posted July 23, 2011 School is out next Wed. Also no other hot girls I see in class. Ill have to wait until late aug to meet girls when I go to the university. How about some hot dudes then?
oaks Posted July 23, 2011 Posted July 23, 2011 School is out next Wed. Also no other hot girls I see in class. Ill have to wait until late aug to meet girls when I go to the university. Look elsewhere. Use your imagination. Where else might there be young adults of about your age over the next month? What are your classmates doing over the summer? What are you planning on doing over the summer? Attractive women, and even hot girls, can be found in many places. Go find them!
whichwayisup Posted July 23, 2011 Posted July 23, 2011 In class today she wasn't very talkative. Like when she sat down I said hi and she just mumbled "hey". She wasn't talkative to me in class, but still laughed, talked to others. After class I tried talking to her and about the text the other night about hanging out after class or sometime she said "I dunn" in a low, boring voice. No smiles. On the way out of class she still wasn't talkative, then called her friend on the phone when I tried talking to her just to say "bye". She did say bye to me as I was walking away. See I try to initiate a conversation with her and she's all b*tchy and anti social towards me. I am not happy right now! Maybe she wasn't herself. Maybe she was in a bad mood, maybe she just didn't feel chatty today.. You are totally taking it personally! You aren't first in her life, so lower your expectations and hopes! You are easily disappointed and get upset, ruining your day when things don't go to YOUR plan or the way you want them to. Chill, man!
TuffCookieX Posted July 23, 2011 Posted July 23, 2011 Unlike those with autism, people with AS are not usually withdrawn around others; they approach others, even if awkwardly. For example, a person with AS may engage in a one-sided, long-winded speech about a favorite topic, while misunderstanding or not recognizing the listener's feelings or reactions, such as a need for privacy or haste to leave.[7] This social awkwardness has been called "active but odd".[3] This failure to react appropriately to social interaction may appear as disregard for other people's feelings, and may come across as insensitive.[7] However, not all individuals with AS will approach others. Some of them may even display selective mutism, speaking not at all to most people and excessively to specific people. Some may choose to talk only to people they like.[26] So you agree then, my diagnosis for onegoal is correct? Thank you.
Author one goal Posted July 23, 2011 Author Posted July 23, 2011 We're talking in text a bit about school and that today. She told me about liking her and asking her out, she said that's in the past and that I should stop brining it up because it's akward when I talk to her about it. Also she said I should pay more attention to my schooling than my new car!
oaks Posted July 23, 2011 Posted July 23, 2011 We're talking in text a bit about school and that today. She told me about liking her and asking her out, she said that's in the past and that I should stop brining it up because it's akward when I talk to her about it. Also she said I should pay more attention to my schooling than my new car! She's still talking to you. Translation: you're allowed to talk to her. She says to stop talking about liking her, to stop going on about your car, and to focus on school. Translation: you're only allowed to talk to her about class stuff.
Author one goal Posted July 23, 2011 Author Posted July 23, 2011 She's still talking to you. Translation: you're allowed to talk to her. She says to stop talking about liking her, to stop going on about your car, and to focus on school. Translation: you're only allowed to talk to her about class stuff. Why does she think its awkward talking to her about liking her for?
zengirl Posted July 23, 2011 Posted July 23, 2011 Why does she think its awkward talking to her about liking her for? Because when you don't like someone the same way they like you, it's awkward. That's like social rule #1 for interaction with the opposite sex. You're really lucky this girl is so nice. Or she already feels REALLY sorry for you. Because she truly is exuding the patience of a saint just by dealing with you. Please find some other way to channel your energy besides this unrequited fixation.
Professor X Posted July 24, 2011 Posted July 24, 2011 Can't believe some people still respond to him seriously. I guess some are just hopeless (and not just the troll). @ One goal, Next time you see her, just talk to her. If she tells you to stop mentioning that you like her, just raise your hand at her face and say out loud "I HAVE SPOKEN!" Chicks love it when the man takes charge.
Mark1 Posted July 24, 2011 Posted July 24, 2011 Onegoal hasn't responded to any accusation that he is a troll, so obviously he is one.
whichwayisup Posted July 24, 2011 Posted July 24, 2011 We're talking in text a bit about school and that today. She told me about liking her and asking her out, she said that's in the past and that I should stop brining it up because it's akward when I talk to her about it. Also she said I should pay more attention to my schooling than my new car! So STOP bugging her about that! Focus on yourself, school, friends, family and your car. She isn't interested.. If you bring it up again, you're going to repell her! Seriously OG, one would think that you would have learned from your past and most recent past with the teacher to chill out and just go with the flow. Everything is ALL or nothing with you ... This is why things don't go in your favour because (sorry to say this) you're pushy and in your face attitude pisses people off. Aka, the teacher, and all your other experiences with women. Onegoal hasn't responded to any accusation that he is a troll, so obviously he is one. He's been on LS too long to be a troll..
Author one goal Posted July 24, 2011 Author Posted July 24, 2011 So STOP bugging her about that! Focus on yourself, school, friends, family and your car. She isn't interested.. If you bring it up again, you're going to repell her! Seriously OG, one would think that you would have learned from your past and most recent past with the teacher to chill out and just go with the flow. Everything is ALL or nothing with you ... This is why things don't go in your favour because (sorry to say this) you're pushy and in your face attitude pisses people off. Aka, the teacher, and all your other experiences with women. He's been on LS too long to be a troll.. Well this isn't a teacher, but an age appropriate girl. You mean by repell her where she wont talk to me? Sadly I'll probably never see her again, unless next summer she takes a class at the community college and if I do also maybe then I'll run into her.
whichwayisup Posted July 24, 2011 Posted July 24, 2011 Well this isn't a teacher, but an age appropriate girl. You mean by repell her where she wont talk to me? Sadly I'll probably never see her again, unless next summer she takes a class at the community college and if I do also maybe then I'll run into her. I know it isn't the teacher. Again: she said that's in the past and that I should stop brining it up because it's akward when I talk to her about it. When you ask a girl out and she says no, and shows no interest in you that way, don't keep asking her out or bringing it up. THAT is why I say repell. OG, you're doing something wrong, the energy you give off or the way you interact with women, the way you are intense, can't let stuff go .. It makes them want to turn the other way. I know this is blunt but you need to work on yourself.
refurb Posted July 24, 2011 Posted July 24, 2011 The part that concerns me is the tone she used. Unemotional "I dunno." just didn't show emotion when saying it. How would you act if a guy friend did this to you? Would you keep contacting him? Trying to fix things? No! You'd think "screw him" and do your own thing. Just because it's a girl doesn't mean you shouldn't act the same. If I were you, I'd walk away and consider it done. RF
Author one goal Posted July 24, 2011 Author Posted July 24, 2011 I know it isn't the teacher. Again: she said that's in the past and that I should stop brining it up because it's akward when I talk to her about it. When you ask a girl out and she says no, and shows no interest in you that way, don't keep asking her out or bringing it up. THAT is why I say repell. OG, you're doing something wrong, the energy you give off or the way you interact with women, the way you are intense, can't let stuff go .. It makes them want to turn the other way. I know this is blunt but you need to work on yourself. It hurts my feelings to be honest she rejected me because as you can see she is a really nice person, and even talks to me a lot and offers advice. To be honest thats why I'm so hurt because she's a nice girl, and I find that attractive as well, but again she wont go on a date with me when I liked everything about her! She is what I wanted in a gal.
somedude81 Posted July 24, 2011 Posted July 24, 2011 It hurts my feelings to be honest she rejected me because as you can see she is a really nice person, and even talks to me a lot and offers advice. To be honest thats why I'm so hurt because she's a nice girl, and I find that attractive as well, but again she wont go on a date with me when I liked everything about her! She is what I wanted in a gal. Did you ever stop for a second and wonder what she wants in a guy?
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