diegodiego Posted April 25, 2004 Posted April 25, 2004 Hi there, i had an affair with a coworker for about only 3 weeks, i had the best time with her, I was ready to move in with her, I was really crazy for her, let me tell you something about my short term lover, she is single but she has 4 kids, with 3 different guys, one is friend with, the other hates her and the last one is in jail ( go figure), in the other hand, i am pretty normal guy, I have a beautiful wife and a awesome 3 yo daughter, so you might think i must be crazy, but this woman(lover) gave me life, pleasure, energy, make me feel so great, that i thought I might had fallen in love with her, but my wife found out, so she react and she made me quiet my job, change phone numbers, I went away for 3 weeks, also my wife promise me that she would never be the same boring and she would never overlooked at me again. The problem is that i feel i gave another chance to my wife and my daughter, but not a chance to myself and my happiness. I think I did the right thing but she want to meet me now so she can get some closure and end everything. The problem is that maybe I still want to go back with her even with all her problem. should I meet her and try to just be cool and let her go for good? I know maybe is the best, but I will always think what if she was the one for me. please help me, I am very confused... Diegodiego
virginia70065 Posted April 25, 2004 Posted April 25, 2004 Having an affair with someone is one thing--it's forbidden, taboo, so it feels more sexy and adventurous--but when you're moving in with someone with 4 kids, LIFE CHANGES! Don't mistake good, exciting sex with an exciting new life full of happiness and goodness. IT'S NOT LIKE THAT! Take it from me--I know what I'm talking about. Forget about her. Just look at her track record, come on!
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