atloss4love Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 Where do I begin. We work together but at the opposite ends of the building sometimes I see him and other times I don't see him for days. I know I like him but I cannot tell if he likes me. He seems shy. We had to work on a project together and we had fun, he laughed, talked and every once in a while we touched. He would often look deep into my eyes. We have never talked about anything but work but I made a comment about someone saying that they thought I liked him and he did not say anything. I don't think he will ever make the first move doing anything. Not to many people in the company like him they say he is cocky, I think it is because he is handsome. What signs do I look for?
Summer Breeze Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 Signs to look for: Proceed With Caution Run, don't walk, to the nearest exit
whichwayisup Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 Where do I begin. We work together but at the opposite ends of the building sometimes I see him and other times I don't see him for days. I know I like him but I cannot tell if he likes me. He seems shy. We had to work on a project together and we had fun, he laughed, talked and every once in a while we touched. He would often look deep into my eyes. We have never talked about anything but work but I made a comment about someone saying that they thought I liked him and he did not say anything. I don't think he will ever make the first move doing anything. Not to many people in the company like him they say he is cocky, I think it is because he is handsome. What signs do I look for? Obviously either you are married or is he married, or you both are married. If that is the case, then forget him and focus on your husband..Or if you're single, find someone who isn't taken already. That expression comes to mind, don't fish at the company pond.. DO you want to be the office gossip? Your ego wants to know if he's interested in you.. Don't let ego win.
MissBee Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 Ahmm none.... Is he married? If so, please don't go hunting for signs of his interest in you. If he isn't...still don't. You've done enough as is to show you're interested, if he is that interested, you'll know Also, workplace romances....esp if it's an affair, not a smart idea.
Author atloss4love Posted July 20, 2011 Author Posted July 20, 2011 How do you work with someone everyday and not think about them?
Emme Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 Picture the face of someone you hate on his head. Start there.
JaneyAmazed Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 How do you work with someone everyday and not think about them? Read as many posts as you can on LS, and all the regrets, heartache, broken marriages that started right where you are...thinking about someone you're not supposed to be with.
OldOnTheInside Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 How do you work with someone everyday and not think about them? So why is this one the OW/OM board? Where do you stand OP? OW-in-the-making or what? To answer your question, you form an emotional disconnection, or create an emotional barrier. It's something you're either born with, or learn through personal experience. As for how you do it...uh, everbody is different.
sandrawg Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 Just because you're attracted to him, doesn't mean you have to act on it.
TurboGirl Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 Is he married? are you married? If you are MARRIED suggest that you leave it alone.
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