dreamingoftigers Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 **** em. If I want to be tortured I'll move to Iran and say bad **** about their government. At least you know what to expect instead of this marriage bull****. And to all you porn-addicted losers out there, don't get involved with anyone, if you want to watch titties on the Internet just do it and let the real human beings have relationships. Go **** yourselves.
andyg99 Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 you have a beautiful child - don't even think about a future relationship, it doesn't matter right now, you have one and only one priority... I'm glad you are using this place to vent, it's great for that....
Author dreamingoftigers Posted July 20, 2011 Author Posted July 20, 2011 My beautiful child is going to be emotionally damaged because of her ****head father whom she idolizes. I hate him more for her sake then for mine. He'll never really be there for her.
andyg99 Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 My beautiful child is going to be emotionally damaged because of her ****head father whom she idolizes. I hate him more for her sake then for mine. He'll never really be there for her. don't say that she is going to be damaged, say that you are going to do everything possible to see that she grows up and has a happy childhood and becomes a well adjusted young lady... if we put negative thoughts in our heads in these crucial early times they may carry forward and soon become our reality... I know you're probably just venting but to all here who have children involved make sure they become the focus, as hard as it is we have to take the garbage out, put it on the curb and walk away from it...
Mauschen Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 I can relate to your feelings, but I do think there is a way to help your child become a well-adjusted adult. My kids' father is extremely emotionally abusive and is also physically abusive. I have tried to limit his parenting time to supervised visitation only, but so far have not been successful. So, I can relate to the feeling that your child will be messed up. But I do everything I can to reverse the damage he has done and is doing by providing good male role models for my children (my father, a close friend, and my new husband), taking the children to therapy each week, and reading them loads of books about relationships and behavior (age appropriate, of course). There are things you can do to help your child.
Author dreamingoftigers Posted July 20, 2011 Author Posted July 20, 2011 Of course I am going to try to do everything that I can. He's just such an ******* and I know he is going to act like he is the ****ing fatherhood hero too. Doesn't matter that he's taken off on her three times since she was born. Right? it's not like she gets attached and now probably has more abandonment issues then the two of us put together.
fltc Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 Well, D.O.T. at least you can get a payday loan! Note, I've already reported "latumore" or spamming pos to the mods, hope he/she/it'll be deleted ASAP!
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