Fab001 Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 (edited) We are both in our 40ies together for 8 years. Ex-bf cheated due to me taking him for granted (which is true to a certain extent). After the first shock, as we both still have feelings, i tried to see if he wants to have a period of nc to let heal our wounds then he meet up again as see what we can do about it. He tells me he needs to think about it. But he also told me that if he did what he did maybe he's not any longer a monogamist (!?!) that he must have a midlife crisis (he's 42) and that his doctor told him he's a nervous break down (this is true, his doctor wanted him to stay home from work but he refused). To me it looks like is desperately trying to find good reasons for doing the mean thing he did but he looks genuinely confused and extremely emotional. He also tells me he needs to be fixed as he does not know any longer who he is. (?!?) What do you think about it? Fab Edited July 20, 2011 by Fab001
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