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Hey all,

 

I sent a Valentine's card to a girl in my office in February (obviously!). We worked on same floor but different departments, however apart from some friendly smiles I never spoke to her. A few months ago my team moved to a different floor, and I was gutted as I rarely see her now.

 

Yesterday I was walking down the office corridor and I saw her in the kitchen area. I didn't go in there, but I had a quick glimpse as I walked past. She looked lovely.

 

I never told her about the card, so she must be wondering as it would frustrate me for sure if it was vice versa. I know very little about her, and for all I know she might have a boyfriend.

 

I sat at my desk today imagining what could have happened if I'd gone in the kitchen and said 'hey, I've got a confession, it was me! Look, I know I sound like a stalker so if you want to take this outside I won't try to block your slap!' I guess really I need to let it go, and I haven't thought about it much since Valentine's Day, but seeing her yesterday brought it all back and I would've been secretly hoping she said 'hey, it was you! I loved it, and you are definitely the one for me, let's get together!' Ha ha!!

 

Chances of seeing her again are slim even though we're in the same building, and although I could e-mail her, again this is risky and not a good approach technique - especially as she works for the legal team!!

 

L :-)

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I'd just ask her out instead of mentioning the card

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I'd just ask her out instead of mentioning the card

 

Agreed. If the first couple of dates go well, THEN you might want to confess.

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