Lostinthepast Posted April 24, 2004 Posted April 24, 2004 I got married when I was fifteen and I he was my first everything kiss,and on from that. We were together for a year before we got married he was twentythree at the time he went in the military and then found another woman everything was fine and then one day he just left this was six years ago in june. He has called a few time but then stops calling. I cant get over him to this day I am still having the same feeling that I did then. Why can't I stop this ? I just want happiness and I cant find the right one other than him. Is there anything that you can recomend?
Blah Toolz Posted April 24, 2004 Posted April 24, 2004 Maybe you've heard this before, but you were a bit too young to get married. And if he just up and left you one day, especially over another woman... then it doesn't sound like a very mature or responsible move on his part. You were still young, and he left a very big impression on you -- and I'm sure you had some great times together, but the fact is that he left you without so much as wanting to stay friends or even be in contact with you. You're still young, and I think you should be able to find someone even better no problem.
magda Posted April 25, 2004 Posted April 25, 2004 And you think talking about it will help you forget?
Author Lostinthepast Posted April 25, 2004 Author Posted April 25, 2004 Yes I guess that I do being that keeping it quiet for so long hasnt worked. Then I guess trying to find another way would be the next thing huh
Simba Posted April 25, 2004 Posted April 25, 2004 Hi, I am a guest who just discovered this board: My spontaneous thought was that you have not really experienced another relationship with another men yet in order to to compare. I believe once you are able to compare you may realize the qualities someone else has but your ex didn.t I feel you are making an idol of your ex and not letting anyone into your life. I hope that you will not regret this one day. You may miss out on Mr Right if your mind still sticks to the guy that was not right. People change a lot especially when they are young. Who knows - if you'd be with him today you may not want him anymore... I think you are afraid to get hurt again. You are sticking onto a guy that left you. Why would you want someone that doesn't want you?? Move on! Life is very short!
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