prettybutterfly Posted July 19, 2011 Posted July 19, 2011 I feel so miserable i had been seeing him fora year. Six months in to our relationship I found out that he had been tellinghis friends to try to kiss me So when the girl he was seeing before me cameout of jail if he wanted to see her he could. He had planned it all, he said he was just going to tell me well u kissed my friend. Well one of his friends did end up kissing me but he told me so many bad thing of my bf that I let it happen… so right after that one day I went to his house at night cause I had been calling him and he would not answer my calls so I called one of his friends and I asked hey do u know where he is at? He said he is at home so I went just to find him with that girl :'( I felt miserable I wanted to die, he was my first I was a virgin!! I love him so much I ended forgiving him but I was so hurt that I felt I needed to get even so I did I stared seeing another guy when all this happed. So now he can’t get over it and he tells me he doesn’t care about me, but when I ask can I see other guys he says I don’t care but I know he gets mad when I go out with guys… he calls me and tells me he wants to be friends but I love him and when we do go out he tells people this is my girl but he tells his friends that we are just friends… I just don’t know what to do I love him I feel so sad that its over well that’s what he tells me but I feel he plays with me cause sometimes he wants to be friends and other time he wants to be my bf. I don’t know what to do because I love him but I know I deserve better
Geya Posted July 19, 2011 Posted July 19, 2011 What?! He told a friend of his to kiss you so the breakup will be your fault?! Hun this guy is a douchbag, that behavious is so childish and cowardly, so he bothered to plan the kissing and everything just so he will gte to be the"innocent guy" that's extremely pathetic! If you don't want to be in a relationship be decent and say it.. I suggest you go NC, being in contact with him will break your heart more and you won't see the real him, distance gives you objectivity, which you're lacking right now because this guy is SO not worth it and on top of that he's not treating you right!
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