Ally-65 Posted July 19, 2011 Posted July 19, 2011 I have no idea why I broke NC. Completely against everything I have been doing or how I have been. Have had NC for 2 months. A mutual friend is having a party this weekend that he holds every two years. It is where me and my ex met, two years ago. It was to be our anniversary and we were looking forward to it. Under the circumstances now, my ex has not been invited. So, i wrote a short email to my ex, with a little joke about who I would be introduced to this year!, and said that I hoped he was ok and happy and wished him a good summer holiday. (He was the dumper) I also said that I had to admit I missed him sometimes. He wrote back telling me everything he is doing in his holiday which is basically visiting his family in Sweden, with his son. (I knew that anyway). He said that he is fine and that he thinks of me too sometimes. I think I am ok with this little bit of contact. I am by no means ready to have more or be friends but I think maybe this is the closure that I have been waiting for. Is that what closure is?
sleepykitten Posted July 19, 2011 Posted July 19, 2011 maybe it is closure, the main thing is you feel ok. I would definatly leave it now even if you do hear back.
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