Rinas Posted July 19, 2011 Posted July 19, 2011 So I had a date/saw a guy today, and I had a good time. We went to the movies, got some smoothies and went in the photo booth. It was just light and fun. By the end of the night he hadn't made any big moves, so I decided that Id be bold and went for the kiss. Well, it was rather hilarious. He pretty much licked my face. I'm unsure of what really went on there, but after that we just both ended up looking at each other and laughing hysterically. We ended up hugging and making other multiple attempts to make it right. Does anyone have some bad first kiss stories? I think he wants to see me again, were just casually dating anyway.
U1987 Posted July 19, 2011 Posted July 19, 2011 So I had a date/saw a guy today, and I had a good time. We went to the movies, got some smoothies and went in the photo booth. It was just light and fun. By the end of the night he hadn't made any big moves, so I decided that Id be bold and went for the kiss. Well, it was rather hilarious. He pretty much licked my face. I'm unsure of what really went on there, but after that we just both ended up looking at each other and laughing hysterically. We ended up hugging and making other multiple attempts to make it right. Does anyone have some bad first kiss stories? I think he wants to see me again, were just casually dating anyway. This one girl from 3 years back. I was 21, she was 18. We only went out for a month cuz I met someone else and she had flaked a few times, but for our first kiss, she open-mouthed tongued; she wouldn't close her lips around mine. I couldn't enjoy it because I was worried one of us was gonna drool. All I could think was "Bitch! Close your lips around mine! Damn!" The worst part was that she said I was a good kisser, but I replied "You too." Big mistake; she never learned to fix that.
oaks Posted July 19, 2011 Posted July 19, 2011 By the end of the night he hadn't made any big moves, so I decided that Id be bold and went for the kiss. I wish more girls were assertive like you! Well, it was rather hilarious. He pretty much licked my face. I'm unsure of what really went on there, but after that we just both ended up looking at each other and laughing hysterically. At least you both found it funny. It could've been really awkward.
Emilia Posted July 19, 2011 Posted July 19, 2011 Yeah, had similar experiences with younger guys I usually wait for a chilled moment on the sofa and take the lead showing them how it should be done
RickyTaylor Posted July 19, 2011 Posted July 19, 2011 I remember my first kiss. it was so fast like 5 nano seconds ahah but in the end of that epic day i was happy like a newcomer millionaire
Emilia Posted July 19, 2011 Posted July 19, 2011 So who cares about technique. Would you choose as man based on his ability to kiss? If he didn't improve then it would bother me. It's same as sex: are you prepared to do what pleases your partner or not? That's what matters
carhill Posted July 19, 2011 Posted July 19, 2011 Never had a bad first kiss. Main reason is why the kiss happened. However, as time went on, it was fun to teach each other what we *liked*.
rafallus Posted July 19, 2011 Posted July 19, 2011 (edited) I had to stop and tell her not to shove her tongue so deep down my throat. And I had my first kiss altogether with her. Honestly, to me kissing alone gets boring. so I decided that Id be bold and went for the kiss.Female confidence is so sexy. And your guy apparently thinks the same. Edited July 19, 2011 by rafallus
Author Rinas Posted July 19, 2011 Author Posted July 19, 2011 So what happened to your last boyfriend? He ended up treating me awfully, was controlling, moving provinces, and then completey ignoring me. I left him and moved on! I figured that I always told people on LS that when I wanted something I generally went for it, and well suppose that's what I did yesterday. At least you both found it funny. It could've been really awkward. Haha! I always try to make sure things go towards more funny opposed to awkward! I had to stop and tell her not to shove her tongue so deep down my throat. And I had my first kiss altogether with her. Honestly, to me kissing alone gets boring. Female confidence is so sexy. And your guy apparently thinks the same. Sounds like a lovely kiss! Well, I sure hope he thinks so.
thatone Posted July 19, 2011 Posted July 19, 2011 Female confidence is so sexy. And your guy apparently thinks the same. indeed it is. the one i'm dating now did that, which is pretty rare, i've only had a couple of others in my lifetime initiate that first kiss. we live in different cities so i was getting into a speech about what i thought of that situation and how i was thinking of spending more time where she lives and she basically 'shut me up' before i could finish what i was saying. she scored a couple of points with that move, that's for sure.
Emilia Posted July 19, 2011 Posted July 19, 2011 The first time around things may be awkward and only a pro----------someone with extensive dating experience can look good at that point. However, a rookie can certainly learn the ropes and be wonderful after wards. IMHO, the meaning is more important than technique. Otherwise, we would choose contortionists as mates. To a degree. It's important to learn what your partner likes and some of that is down to technique but it's not something that's hard to learn. Chewing a girl's face off for example will never be acceptable but a surprising number of boys think that in the beginning
oaks Posted July 19, 2011 Posted July 19, 2011 so I decided that Id be bold and went for the kiss. Well, it was rather hilarious. He pretty much licked my face. I'm unsure of what really went on there, In terms of what actually happened... perhaps you surprised him so much that he missed your mouth with his tongue! (not that sticking out ones tongue is necessarily the best way to start a first kiss, but anyway.) I'm sure I had some unnecessarily sloppy kisses when I was a teenager. I'd like to think that I've learned maybe one or two things about kissing since then.
Author Rinas Posted July 20, 2011 Author Posted July 20, 2011 In terms of what actually happened... perhaps you surprised him so much that he missed your mouth with his tongue! (not that sticking out ones tongue is necessarily the best way to start a first kiss, but anyway.) I'm sure I had some unnecessarily sloppy kisses when I was a teenager. I'd like to think that I've learned maybe one or two things about kissing since then. Haha, it's likely. Was a terribly funny moment though, I'm just glad he was just as a goofy and willing to give it another shot. Good times! I have yet to learn some more.
Ginger Beer Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 I had to stop and tell her not to shove her tongue so deep down my throat. And I had my first kiss altogether with her. Honestly, to me kissing alone gets boring. Female confidence is so sexy. And your guy apparently thinks the same. I don't agree.
Dusk1983 Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 Honestly, to me kissing alone gets boring. A tell tale sign that you're not very good at it.
Mme. Chaucer Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 I could have been scarred for life by my first ever "make-out" experience. The guy planted his mouth over mine kind of like a sucker fish, and poked his tongue into my mouth - and kind of stayed like that while smooshing his jaw around a little. Oh my, was it horrible. I hope you've learned a lot about kissing since 7th grade, Doug T, wherever you are!
Untouchable_Fire Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 I had an x/GF that had weird likes and dislikes in kissing. She hated getting her lips wet... wouldn't do tongue... ect. Dated her for just over a year then a few weeks after we broke up I kissed this girl on a date. She told me it was worse than a kiss from her grandpa. *Facepalm* I realized that I was still kissing my ex. Thanks to her honesty I fixed that one in a hurry!
Crusoe Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 I could have been scarred for life by my first ever "make-out" experience. The guy planted his mouth over mine kind of like a sucker fish, and poked his tongue into my mouth - and kind of stayed like that while smooshing his jaw around a little. Oh my, was it horrible. I hope you've learned a lot about kissing since 7th grade, Doug T, wherever you are! Ha, same for me. When I was 7 a girl down the road got a new bike. It was a great bike and I really wanted to have a go, so one Saturday morning I asked for a ride. She said I could as long as I kissed her. I agreed as long as the kiss happened where nobody could see, (kissing girls was very uncool at that age). She dragged me into the shed in her back garden, flung her arms around me, clamped her mouth over the lower part of my face, jammed her tongue in my mouth and just kind of drooled for a while. It was horrible, and the bike ride wasn't worth it. I was so taken aback that I rode over her tortoise and crashed into a rose bush. To make matters worse I arrived at school on Monday to learn that I was "engaged". Only way I could break that enagement was to tell my best mate about the cool bike Tina had. By lunchtime he had a wet face and I was a free man.
zengirl Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 I've had many "nervous" bad first kisses that were subsequently fixed. That's not really a "bad kiss" in my book. With my last exBF, we didn't kiss till the end of the 2nd date, I figured he wouldn't kiss me yet again since he'd had 27 different chances to make a move already and hadn't, and he sort of went for it weirdly and we knocked heads. But we both said, "Let's try again" and had a lovely immediately following 2nd kiss. So, it wasn't really a bad kiss; just a FAIL; redo. My current BF said, "I'm going to kiss you now," thus avoiding all awkwardness during kiss, but we burst out laughing before the kiss. If it isn't a little awkward at some point, IMO, the people just don't care enough for it to be awesome. A truly bad first kiss (not nervousness, where we didn't both get to a "good kiss" place before that date ended) would probably be a dealbreaker for me at this stage. Every time I've had those, the relationship never went anywhere. But everyone is different.
zengirl Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 a modern woman wouldn't give him another opportunity. players have more practice and know how to kiss because theyve had the practice. I don't date anyone who hasn't had a GF before (generally don't date players either, unless they've been long-reformed; i.e. if you were a player in college but have been relationship-oriented for the past half-decade or longer, different story, but if you still pick up drunk girls in bars, not my cuppa) at my age since most of the guys I date are midtwenties - midthirties. And really it's not 'technique' in kissing that matters; it's chemistry. Anyone who's had a relationship before has enough kissing experience to get 'technique' down (not difficult), if he's/she's ever going to. What makes a truly bad kiss (not those nervous kisses, which are cute in the beginning!) is a lack of connection and chemistry between two people. And a guy who doesn't have the awareness to realize a nervous kiss and the confidence and playfulness to correct it with me probably isn't my cuppa either. That's why as I say nervous kisses usually get corrected (at least with me, since I'll call it out ) on the same date. And thus become adorable.
aj22one Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 a modern woman wouldn't give him another opportunity. players have more practice and know how to kiss because theyve had the practice. Dude, there's a lot of good guys out there that know how to kiss and have been in relationships before. Stop with this nice guy vs player crap. Inexperienced guys in their mid-twenties should just get out of the way, they're ruining the field for everyone else.
rafallus Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 (edited) a modern woman wouldn't give him another opportunity. players have more practice and know how to kiss because theyve had the practice. How hard can kissing be, really? Inexperienced guys in their mid-twenties should just get out of the way, they're ruining the field for everyone else. You want to make some gas chambers to help them or what? Edited July 20, 2011 by rafallus
snug.bunny Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 I've had a few bad first kisses. One had excess saliva in his mouth and it felt like he spit in my mouth . And another time, the guy kissed like a little fish, he barely moved his lips. I once took "the" initiative too....so glad to see I'm not alone. We were in close proximity on a date, and he stood there with the appearance of an electro-mechanical machine, so I thought he could use some warming up.
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