Starnette83 Posted April 24, 2004 Posted April 24, 2004 Ok me and my bf broke up on thurs...it was a mutual agreement, cos he always kinda wanted to break up and me- well i was mad and i had it!!!...i had found him in those rate-hook up sites, and him writingsomething like "If u like me let me know cos maybe ill like you too"...ugh! so i was mad and he didnt even say he was sorry so i just told him that its better we just aint together anymore cos there is no trust and stuff..and i see our 3 1/2 relationsuip going nowhere...so we said we would stay friends and we left it as that. Ya i was feeling down, but i guess i had been hjeard broken so much by him- like for a whole year that it wasnt that harsh..it was just a small bits of pain with some missing..but not where i can say "UGH I WANNA DIE"...anyways he still called me i guess cos we said we would be friends, but i didnt call him at all...anyways when he would call he would say things like a bf, like call me "babe"...anyways he wanted to see my friday to go buy me a pair of pants and take me to eat..he really has neevr offered to go buy me some cloth at ther mall..maybe just once or twice before this time, so i was a lil surprised...cos hes not acitng like a friend but more... so anyways i decided to meet up with him on friday cos my girl friends canceled plans on me and i didnt wanna stay home, so we met up and he took me to the mall, then he took me to a really nice restaurant (he usually takes me to IN n out or burger places)..so it was nice cos the times he has tooken me to restaurants..its rare...anyways..he was calling me "babe"..and **** like that...and then holding my hand... My question is WHY???? and even though i guess we are back together...i dont think i can give myself 100%anymore, i dont want to..so should i just stay but be distant, and do what i gotta do for me first?....anyways did he start acting nice cos he saw that i was whatever and decided to break free from him without tears and pain like i usually did...cos it seems that when i act strong and am strong he gets more attracted to me..whats the deal??
DiorAddict Posted April 24, 2004 Posted April 24, 2004 Babygirl, get the hell out! Sounds like he is afraid of committment and has the mentality that there's something else out there, and that something else is not you! It's good he's acting like a boyfriend, but then it's like WHAT THE HELL! He's sending doble messages, and it's not fair to you. Don't let him have his cake and eat it too. Sounds like he's "on the fence" which means he know's your a great catch "wifey material" and he doesn't want to loose it, but his ego's too huge and he thinks the grass is greener on the other side. It's your call, but find someone who can't live without you, not someone who wants to see what it's like without you and with another. Keep me posted!
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