Nicholas13 Posted July 19, 2011 Posted July 19, 2011 I have a gf who is 18 and a year into university. We have been dating for over ten months now and she is my fist real long term gf. The problem I am having is between her and her ex's. She talks to all af them when ever she sees them and one of them every other day through texting. She really doesnt like to hang with girls much but all here guys friends have had a thing for her in the past. Even thought I try to be forgiven with her is there something I should do or just deal with this like it was nothin. And one more this is that the first for or so months she would always be leading guys on through texting also stating that she would def. **** a previous fling again if she had the chance. Also, she was dating a guy when I asked her out while not telling me until I found out via friends. I confronted her and she said she broke up with him but really dated him for two more weeks. We have talked about everything numerous times and she seems to love me but it still feels like she can't get over her ex's. What do I do?
catchthedrift Posted July 19, 2011 Posted July 19, 2011 it seems like she is very immature and doesn't really know what 'love' and 'being in a relationship' really is. not gonna last, imo.
rafallus Posted July 19, 2011 Posted July 19, 2011 She really doesnt like to hang with girls much Possible red flag there. Girls who say "they don't like other girls and only have guys as friends", typically see those other girls as competition for male attention. They like to reap validation from multiple men. Then again, she's 18, mentally a child - can't expect too much.
Casablanca Posted July 19, 2011 Posted July 19, 2011 Possible red flag there. Girls who say "they don't like other girls and only have guys as friends", typically see those other girls as competition for male attention. They like to reap validation from multiple men. Then again, she's 18, mentally a child - can't expect too much. I don't really agree with that, I have a few female friends who really dont have too many female friends because they think females can be nuts and it is easier to have guy friends; not saying this isnt the case for current in mention though I'd be worried about this and like catch, it seems like it might be hard for this to last with the way she acts
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