MoonlightShadow Posted July 19, 2011 Posted July 19, 2011 i dn't know when's the right time to talk to him again....we've been broken up for about 1 1/2 months. he broke up with me. i've recently just decided to do NC. we broke up because of a bad argument...after two days of NC he texted me. he texted in the morning, and i basically said morning, im kinda busy, so teext me next week and we'll talk then" after that, i didn't reply to any of his texts then...since then, he's been texting and calling, but i dont know if it's the right time to answer or text back. his texts said: Morning (i answered this one) Bull****, im not waiting til next week (his response. i didn't answer this) Y the hell do i have to wait til next week! u there Damn it (my name) i know ur not ****ing doing anything y cant u text where r u where r u y wont u just tell me ill keep texting u until u tell me... then he called 3 times and i ignored them.... i know i've posted something like this before, but i need to knw...if i want to get back with him after i break up with him, how long should i do NC til i answer him back?? please help?
wilsonx Posted July 19, 2011 Posted July 19, 2011 (edited) He doesnt want to get back with you, he wants his power back. You dont want to get back with that piece of work... Stick to NC TO answer your question... when to break NC You want to only break it when he tells you, Im the biggest idiot on the planet, I am so sorry for how I treated you, I will do anything to have you back in my life as my beautiful girlfriend. If it does not have the words, sorry, I will do anything to have you back as my girlfriend, it means absolutely nothing Edited July 19, 2011 by wilsonx
Author MoonlightShadow Posted July 19, 2011 Author Posted July 19, 2011 ...hmm...i guess ur right...oh well...atleast im getting use to being away from him thank you for ur advice
David Cain Posted July 19, 2011 Posted July 19, 2011 Wilson is right, he just wants to mind**ck you to see if you'll take the bait he's holding over your head. Maintain NC and mourn over what happened. It's what you must do to heal. There will be days where you'll feel right as rain, and they'll be days where you're very sad. It's all part of the process of becoming stronger after this experience. I wouldn't recommend going back to him. From what you posted he seems like the type to get pissy if things doesn't go his way.
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