Timbo22 Posted July 19, 2011 Posted July 19, 2011 I have gave into my ex's breadcrumbs twice now. 1st time 3 months ago running into her at a party.-She ran up hugged and kissed me. and Friday where she blew me up with texts and wanted to see me. I stepped outside and talker to her and she apologized for everything she has done wrong and wanted to make amends, she told me she misses and ended adding her back on FB... Of course it was only because he broke up with her that she called me and wanted to see me. Yes it did get my hopes up, but she told me how miserable her life is now... Hitting rock bottom 3 times, how insecure she is, how she is struggling in school, complaining about her bf who left her... She also started crying when she heard how happy I was and she left a love song on my FB page... Anway I haven't talked to her since friday and she just got back with that guy again. But I sure know now not to bite and crumbs, I think I played it cool though... It really bothers me that she tells me that her life is horrible?! I was with her for 3 1/2 years and she was my 1st love and best friend... I do miss her, but idk if I could ever take her back knowing that if she really loved me she wouldn't have done all of this... Especially getting my hopes up again. I guess ill learn my lesson, I'm 22 and this was my 1st serious relationship and not a day goes by that i dont think about her and its been 6 months now...
Chi townD Posted July 19, 2011 Posted July 19, 2011 Here's the rub. Her life is not horrible. She's only telling you that to get sympathy and the attention she's craving from you AT THAT MOMENT!! SHe tells you that she broke up with her boyfriend then tells you all the things you've been dying to hear her say only to turn around and hook up with the guy she broke it off with. Run fast and run far....de-friend her on Facebook please!
Exit Posted July 19, 2011 Posted July 19, 2011 Yeah be glad you didn't fall for it completely. She just wants to be with SOMEONE, obviously it doesn't matter who. If you had suggested getting back together she probably would have been for it, but you didn't, so now she's back with the other guy. Not worth it. Don't be there as her emotional support the next time something goes wrong between the two of them, make her realize she lost you. Let her girlfriends listen to her whine about her guy problems, don't become her friend.
radiodarcy Posted July 19, 2011 Posted July 19, 2011 Here's the rub. Her life is not horrible. She's only telling you that to get sympathy and the attention she's craving from you AT THAT MOMENT!! SHe tells you that she broke up with her boyfriend then tells you all the things you've been dying to hear her say only to turn around and hook up with the guy she broke it off with. Run fast and run far....de-friend her on Facebook please! ugh! this is sooo true! my ex used to do this all this time -- tell me how crappy his life was and about how he was always getting rejected by girls (of course him rejecting/dumping me - - why that was no reason for me to get upset about!). but then i'd go on his facebook and see all these flirty message from other girls on his wall. not to mention he would make it a point to text other girls in front of me. i'm so glad i stopped being his friend and confidant and went NC! it really is about them being selfish and satisfying their needs at the that time. people who behave like this will never be happy and will continue to drag you down to their level as long as you let them.
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