beijaflor Posted July 19, 2011 Posted July 19, 2011 I met a guy on an online relationship site in 01/2011. Things happened too fast and on the 5th date I was having sex with him. I thought he should not be online looking for another date and after 6 weeks together I asked a friend of mine to send him a message on that online site and he answered her. I got so hurt and I sent him a text message saying that I hope he could find what he was looking for. So, he said ok we can be friends... In April I contact him and he asked me to go out for dinner, so we went to the bed again, but it was always something that I started. Once again I thought he should cannot continue online and reapeted the story... I June we started going out again, now for 5 consecutives Saturdays, but we don't touch each other... Does he want to try again, but now in the right way... slowly. He and I continue online, he had said that he doesn't feel like to be dating anymore... I don't know if he only wants to enjoy my company or if he wants something else. Sorry, English is not my first language, I hope you understand everything I wrote.
Valid Sintax Posted July 19, 2011 Posted July 19, 2011 So, on two separate occasions you dated and asked him to be exclusive with you after you had sex, and on both occasions he was still dating or trying to date other women. Giving him a second chance was more than I would give someone. Because he has done that twice, I would definitely not date him anymore if I were you.
sugarmomma Posted July 19, 2011 Posted July 19, 2011 Have you asked him what he wants? What do you want? If its a serious relationship it doesn't seem that he's on that same page. Sorry but you should find someone that has a mutual interest in you. Most guys online are looking for sex. Let a man date you and show you that he wants you. You should never do the pursuing or chasing. Sex will get him to come over but it won't keep him interested in you as a person.
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