lostinlove35 Posted July 18, 2011 Posted July 18, 2011 It started about 9 months ago and I started seein this guy. The problem was he is in a relationship and we both said its ok that we would be friends with benifits.. Well as time has progressed things have changed alot, he started sayin he loves me and one time he said he wanted to marry me. Wow I thought he is finally goin to be mine. The only problem is that he is stillin a relationship that he won't end and I don't kow why.. we don't get much time together but when we do we always end up havin sex. I want to tell him its more than sex to me but how do I do that without freakin him out? He tells me everyday that he loves me but I wonder if that is just a way to keep me to himself even though I have to share him. I need help bad iam so in love and its drivin me crazy. I have to see him with hs girlfriend everyday and it makes me sick.I just want to tell her hey I have been sleepin with ur man. And maybe she will leave but I don't want to cause I am scared that he will leave.. anybody please help
Casablanca Posted July 18, 2011 Posted July 18, 2011 It started about 9 months ago and I started seein this guy. The problem was he is in a relationship and we both said its ok that we would be friends with benifits.. Well as time has progressed things have changed alot, he started sayin he loves me and one time he said he wanted to marry me. Wow I thought he is finally goin to be mine. The only problem is that he is stillin a relationship that he won't end and I don't kow why.. we don't get much time together but when we do we always end up havin sex. I want to tell him its more than sex to me but how do I do that without freakin him out? He tells me everyday that he loves me but I wonder if that is just a way to keep me to himself even though I have to share him. I need help bad iam so in love and its drivin me crazy. I have to see him with hs girlfriend everyday and it makes me sick.I just want to tell her hey I have been sleepin with ur man. And maybe she will leave but I don't want to cause I am scared that he will leave.. anybody please help Think of it this way...if he is willing to cheat on her with you, what's to stop him from cheating on you with someone else if you two got together? I'd dodge the whole situation myself and cut your losses
azsinglegal Posted July 18, 2011 Posted July 18, 2011 Think of it this way...if he is willing to cheat on her with you, what's to stop him from cheating on you with someone else if you two got together? I'd dodge the whole situation myself and cut your losses Agree with this. Get out while you can have some self respect. You're the other woman. Who agrees to be someone's FWB who's already in a relationship? Put yourself in the other woman's shoes, how would you feel if someone woman did this to you? He's using you...you're better than this. You deserve someone's full attention. There are plenty of men out there who will give it to you too.
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