brokendreamz Posted July 18, 2011 Posted July 18, 2011 So. Sold the house and was waiting for all the utility companies to refund some money so I could close the joint account. Transferred half the money to her and she emails me a big thank you and wishes me well. It's amazing how even this set me back! I was doing good. Been nc for 17 days up to that point and here I am thinking about her too much again! Argh! I miss her soooooooooooooooo much :0(
Steven T Posted July 18, 2011 Posted July 18, 2011 Accept whats happened and shes gone... Continue no contact and take one day at a time, you can do it.
BlindRage Posted July 18, 2011 Posted July 18, 2011 What? A... "thank you"...? Well, she can just shove that "thank you" up her rectum! Stop talking to her now COMPLETELY. Believe me it does get easier when you cut ALL contact.
Renard99 Posted July 19, 2011 Posted July 19, 2011 Just take solace from the fact that now these things are done, you can completely cut the connection to her. I had the same thing with my ex back in May. We broke up in Jan but it took me a long time to sort out the house and various other things. I had to keep contacting her to give her updates as well as to get her signature. Then, finally, in May, I was able to close everything down and had no need to contact her and i've been NC ever since. My healing started to begin from that point really. Ok, so i'm still a very long way off healed, I still miss her and seeing her in or around the office I work in does hurt, but I'm certainly getting better now that I don't have to speak to her. I know it's tough mate but it is all just another step along the road, and I, for one, am right there with you.
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