Sugarkane Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 Givenup trust me if anyone wants revenge its me! I was dumped completely out of the blue and given no breakup conversation at all. Then never heard from again, as if our relationship never even existed.
bikinibeach Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 HELLOOOO EVERYONE!!! DEVIL'S ADVOCATE, IN THE HOUSE!!!! i have written a few real good borderline abusive emails to my ex and only posted them here on loveshack. i was surprised how cathartic that was in itself. people will tell you to be the 'bigger person' and write a letter and burn it and scream into your pillow....well we don't all live in happy fairy land and sometimes when someone treats you like absolute s****, gets away unscathed and thinking they have you in their back pocket- they deserve a good reaming o i can tell you, i posted the worst of them on here, but i just had to let him know that i wasn't sitting here crying over him like he thought. also, people like that go through life treating MANY people like that. if the email is older than 2 weeks, if you reply now, it will show it has been bugging you for some time. if not, reply back with something along the lines of: "hi wanted to write back sooner but been a bit busy. you're a toxic person and i would NEVER want to be friends with someone as low as you. get help. and please move on with your life and leave me alone. ps: you have cellulite and i'm blocking your email :)" short, to the point and packs a punch or two. then, COMPLETE NC from there. after you've got your 2 cents in, you really have to let it go. be prepared for retaliation....if you can't handle it, block their email and phone in anticipation. otherwise, enjoy the free entertainment THAT is my advice. xo
bikinibeach Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 OH PS: the dynamic might be different for you. i was the dumper (had to, he was an assclown) but coming from a dumpee, might be a bit pathetic? yikes. your call. mull over possible outcomes and if you can deal with them all, proceed. also, don't bring anyone else into it. i had the chance to, but i used every ounce of self restraint in my body to stop myself from sending his meddling ex-girlfriend "best friend" emails he sent me talking about how he wished she'd leave him alone.....which explains why he wouldn't give her up for me? strange. still a bit bitter. but in a much better place. his pedestal has been vandalized, kicked over, chainsawed and riverdanced on. YIPEE!
flitzanu Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 nadne, well said. givenup--honestly at this point, why would you think she gives a **** what you say? the way you describe her...she won't. save your breath. trust me. been there done that. she moved on and could care less what you say. sorry.
marqueemoon4 Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 ps: you have cellulite and i'm blocking your email :)" xo HAH! my ex wife has cellulite, had the misfortune of seeing it yesterday! gross!
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