Mnesic Posted July 18, 2011 Posted July 18, 2011 We have so many things in common and I enjoy being around her and I think she likes me a lot, but I am not attracted to her what so ever.. what can I do?
somedude81 Posted July 18, 2011 Posted July 18, 2011 How long have you known her? How much time have you spent with her?
Author Mnesic Posted July 18, 2011 Author Posted July 18, 2011 I've only met her today, I don't know if I should pursue her or not
Cracker Jack Posted July 18, 2011 Posted July 18, 2011 If you're not attracted to her, there's no reason for you to pursue her.
Rinas Posted July 18, 2011 Posted July 18, 2011 If there is no attraction, I wouldn't pursue. You will just be looking at other women and it's not fair on her part. She would want someone who is physically attracted to her.
KathyM Posted July 18, 2011 Posted July 18, 2011 Don't pursue a relationship. If you're not attracted to her, the relationship is not going to last.
catchthedrift Posted July 19, 2011 Posted July 19, 2011 I dated a guy for a good amount of 4 months until I finally realized the reason why I didn't enjoy sleeping with him and being at his house and hanging out talking about relationship stuff, was that I wasn't sexually attracted to him, albeit the fact that he was emotionally, characteristically and intellectually perfect for me. Sucks that we now barely talk and I kinda broke his heart, but what can you do? I probably could have grown to like him physically, but at the time I believed it wasn't what I wanted. You should be friends with this girl and see where it goes from there.
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