Yort96 Posted July 18, 2011 Posted July 18, 2011 I just recently got divorced and moved to Germany where I am stationed. I never went out very often where I was before while being married but started living it up being here. Met a girl one night and instantly we had a connection, both divorced recently, have kids and overall good chemistry. Within the first week we went out almost every night and I was invited to a trip with her and her friends to Amsterdam. Went had a great time but things started to get weird towards the end. When we got back she stopped calling and started to hang out a lot with one of my friends. Never really been the jealous type but it really got to me and we had a bad argument which I thought it was over. She went back to the states and just recently got back. Within a few days she called and told me she was sorry for what she did and that she was told I was a womanizing ******* and believed it (although my friend she started seeing is that kind of guy). She never mentioned this before but apparently she made another guy jealous while in amsterdam (the fifth wheel) and that is what he told her about me. She hasn't came out directly that she wants to start dating again and I'm a little hesitant in how things went the first time. Wanted to know some outside opinions on the subject.
Author Yort96 Posted July 18, 2011 Author Posted July 18, 2011 More info that may change things. The first couple of weeks her kids where in the states and she didn't have much responsibility at the time. So for that time it was constant weekends of going out drinking and relaxing as she didn't have kids to worry about, and I just got divorced. She is separated but not yet divorced, from what she has told me the husband does not care at all for the kids. I have not yet seen her when she is "herself" yet. I am not sure if I should just move on and forget about her, or forget what happened before and start fresh.
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