the89 Posted July 17, 2011 Posted July 17, 2011 So its been roughly 4.5 months after the breakup and I am starting to feel better. I still have contact with her, rarely, but still contact. Also, she initiated it a couple times too. Feeling a little better and more ambitious lately, I've been trying to branch out a lot and make new friends. It's kinda a hit and miss situation but its definitely something I need to do now that I'm single and don't have a big crowd of friends anyway. So far I've been hanging out with a friend I knew a while ago, its been fun, and hes initiated plans a few times. The other people I met seem cool, but it seems like I'm the one always trying to hangout with them, asking whats going on, wanna hit up the bars, etc.. but they're not pulling their own weight in "trying to be friends" (if you wanna say it like that). I have a lot of free time on my hands lately and wanna do something fun but cant seem to find the right people. I don't want to come off as needy/looser either ya know? I'm SO bored day after day with practically nothing to do until my job and school starts again. This might sound lame but is there any advice out there in making new friends? Hell I'm having a hard enough time getting new girls let alone new friends...it's pretty depressing to say the least. thanks for the help!
sleepykitten Posted July 18, 2011 Posted July 18, 2011 Maybe join something-gym, a group, something that youre interested in, then youre bound to meet people who you have something in common with, and you get to fill time, the gyms great as you'll also look fit-or fitter and exercise makes you feel happier, and theres good looking guys/girls to check out win win in my eyes!!
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