FlashTM Posted July 17, 2011 Posted July 17, 2011 Let’s get real, this happens to all of us. There’s that girl, that special girl, the girl of our dreams, but we look at her and think that she’s in a league of her own or that she is too much for us and we’ll never be able to have that girl. A few weeks later she’s with a total douche and ugly dude and our jaw hits the floor. And then we think, “Why in the world didn’t I try to approach her?”. I’m far better looking than that guy and definitely would have more chances with her than him. Why? Why? What kind of tips would you guys give to the ones in this situation? I think we should try to test if she’s interested in us via indirect contact at first. For instance, it’s easy to add her on Facebook and comment on her status to see what her response is and if it’s a positive one, then move on to a real life connection.
oaks Posted July 17, 2011 Posted July 17, 2011 What kind of tips would you guys give to the ones in this situation? My tip for you is go and spam elsewhere, thanks.
Sanman Posted July 17, 2011 Posted July 17, 2011 Two step solution: 1. Put your hand between your legs and make sure you still have two testicles. 2. Walk up to her and let her know you are interested I'm dating her and only interested in that. Everything else is conjecture and a waste of time. You'll just be on LS asking us what it means that it took two days for her to accept your friend request.
Author FlashTM Posted July 17, 2011 Author Posted July 17, 2011 My tip for you is go and spam elsewhere, thanks. It is clear that you don't know how to handle this situation, or maybe you are an alpha male that knows how to handle these situations and therefore calling it spam. Please don't comment if you don't want to participate. Thanks
rafallus Posted July 17, 2011 Posted July 17, 2011 1. Put your hand between your legs and make sure you still have two testicles. 2. Walk up to her and let her know you are interested I'm dating her and only interested in that. Everything else is conjecture and a waste of time. You'll just be on LS asking us what it means that it took two days for her to accept your friend request. Very good solution. I can vouch for that. And proves, why leagues = BS.
grkBoy Posted July 17, 2011 Posted July 17, 2011 I don't care what anyone says. It's better to try and fail (get rejected) than not to try at all. You can't assume every drop-dead gorgeous woman (or man if you're a woman) is instantly seeking a similar-looking mate. If I thought that way I would never have gotten the first dates I've managed to pull off in my life. The ONLY rule you should live by is IF YOU SEE THE OPPORTUNITY, TAKE IT. So pretty girl and you make eye contact, she smiles. Say hi. What do you have to lose? Even if she pushes you away and goes home later to complain on iVillage how ugly guys keep thinking they have a shot with her, let her be. Let her complain and then wake up at age 30, 35, or 40 and be the girl who never got married while all her friends are happily settled down with guys she thinks are "not hot enough" for her friends. That's a hypothetical situation, but many times you would be surprised how many people will pick "down to Earth" over "super hot". Right now the people I see ending up happy are the ones who chose "down the Earth", while the ones clinging on to the idea of a "super hot" mate are still chronically single and making excuses as to why they can't find their ideal mate. Just try. You have nothing to lose. Stop thinking you have no shot. Get rejected and you know then where you stood. You never know...she just might be the girl who isn't seeking David Beckham.
oaks Posted July 17, 2011 Posted July 17, 2011 It is clear that you don't know how to handle this situation, or maybe you are an alpha male that knows how to handle these situations and therefore calling it spam. Please don't comment if you don't want to participate. Thanks There is no situation. You're just making up a fiction as a place to hang your spam, although I see you've taken it out of your sig now...
OrangeSnack Posted July 17, 2011 Posted July 17, 2011 I don't care what anyone says. It's better to try and fail (get rejected) than not to try at all. You can't assume every drop-dead gorgeous woman (or man if you're a woman) is instantly seeking a similar-looking mate. If I thought that way I would never have gotten the first dates I've managed to pull off in my life. The ONLY rule you should live by is IF YOU SEE THE OPPORTUNITY, TAKE IT. So pretty girl and you make eye contact, she smiles. Say hi. What do you have to lose? Even if she pushes you away and goes home later to complain on iVillage how ugly guys keep thinking they have a shot with her, let her be. Let her complain and then wake up at age 30, 35, or 40 and be the girl who never got married while all her friends are happily settled down with guys she thinks are "not hot enough" for her friends. That's a hypothetical situation, but many times you would be surprised how many people will pick "down to Earth" over "super hot". Right now the people I see ending up happy are the ones who chose "down the Earth", while the ones clinging on to the idea of a "super hot" mate are still chronically single and making excuses as to why they can't find their ideal mate. Just try. You have nothing to lose. Stop thinking you have no shot. Get rejected and you know then where you stood. You never know...she just might be the girl who isn't seeking David Beckham. Great tip, i agree with this 100%. You really have nothing to lose. Ever heard of that asian phrase: "BE A MAN DO THE RIGHT THING" Good luck
David Cain Posted July 17, 2011 Posted July 17, 2011 Just try. Nothing to lose and everything to gain.
catchthedrift Posted July 19, 2011 Posted July 19, 2011 Watch the movie "She's Out of My League" and get some ideas. Haha.
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