Splitting but Reconciling ??!!!

[Deroy]

I have been married for 3 years and deeply love my wife .There have been some huge issues in our relationship that we are prepared too try too fix . We have a blended family and if any of you know what happens you are destined for a lot of hardache especially when your dealing with teenages.Im not going too say everything as it would take pages.What I will say is that we both are comming from very broken relationships emotional,sexual abuse ,rejection and abandonment .My wife triggers me in the intamacy of our relationship because she had never properly delt with her childhood abuse.Unfortunatly I was rejected from my ex and family and feel very overwhelmed when my wife doesnt respond too my intimacy attempts.We are choosing too split for a season and reconcile.This is the second time as I got back with my ex and it failed.Im taking this leap of faith .I really want our marriage too work but understand that in our current situatuion we are destined for divorce and we both agree that we dont want that.In our three years my wifes income has been up and down .Right now its down .How do i manage this knowing she will be in a differant apartments .How do I work through missing her when she isnt laying beside me.We are going too be going for marriage councelling and individual councelling for us and some of our kids.How will i manage being away from her for a year or two .These are the questions I cannot answer ?