jmurphy Posted July 17, 2011 Posted July 17, 2011 Well ill keep this short. Broke up with ex prob 6-7 week ago.. Arguing a bit ect.. I started no contact to get over her... She txt me a few times just random stuff. Deleted her from facebook Noticed recently her profile picture of her and another guy.. This got to me but i didnt cave in. Last night i see her leaving the nightclub with the guy.. This hurt and in a drunken state i txted her sauing have a good night! She txt me back saying what choice do i have?? Wtf she playing at?? Grr Thanks for reading
wilsonx Posted July 17, 2011 Posted July 17, 2011 She's right. You ended the relationship, now your jealous? Stick to NC
Author jmurphy Posted July 17, 2011 Author Posted July 17, 2011 I kno sounds like i the crazy one! I obv still have feelings for her and she has every right to be happy.. Im just not sure if shes doing this purposly or genuinely
livy07 Posted July 17, 2011 Posted July 17, 2011 any1?........ The question is, why do you care?? You're the one who broke up with her. Stop checking up on her and move on. Unless you legitimately want her back, which it doesn't seem like you do.
Kilty Posted July 17, 2011 Posted July 17, 2011 You are asking WTF is she playing at ? Roles reversed - she is probably asking WTF you are playing at - as are we as you havent made it clear. Whether it was you or her that ended the relationship - from what you have said it seems it was you - both of you needed to make a choice. It seems she initially tried for reconcilation and you rejected it so she went and found someone else. Did you expect her to mope around and stay single ? So it appears she has again given you a window of opportunity by saying "what choice do i have" and its up to you how you use that as it comes across crystal clear that she wanted you but you werent interested. So i suggest you have a long hard think about what you want. if you love this girl and want her back then you know what you have to do but you better be sure as if not it would be mightily cruel. There is no guarantee however that she will come back. If you dont want her back, are only jealous that she is with someone else then do the decent thing and let her get on with her life
Author jmurphy Posted July 17, 2011 Author Posted July 17, 2011 i agree with your comments 100%. Its very selfish of me to think she should stay single.. and i want her to be happy.. just seems little fast and yes it is a jealous feeling. I dont kno what i want.. i thought i did but this has thrown a spanner in the works! im not sure if she wants me or not.. or shes moved on or trying to make me jeleous.. was an odd reply what got me.. "what choice do i have"? roles reversed i prob would have just ignored the message.. but were all different.
Author jmurphy Posted July 17, 2011 Author Posted July 17, 2011 Not sure wether to txt her today to apoligise?
samm84 Posted July 17, 2011 Posted July 17, 2011 Its obvious your feeling jealous here. I would recommend that you don't contact her, instead just remind yourself that she's moving on, and that you truly want her to be happy.
Author jmurphy Posted July 17, 2011 Author Posted July 17, 2011 I guess so.. I just hope she isnt playing games
Kilty Posted July 17, 2011 Posted July 17, 2011 I guess so.. I just hope she isnt playing games What difference does it make ?
Author jmurphy Posted July 17, 2011 Author Posted July 17, 2011 Just seems like she is n poss in a rebound
samm84 Posted July 17, 2011 Posted July 17, 2011 I doubt that she is intentionally trying to make you jealous. The question you have to ask yourself is why this matters to you? Unless you are hoping that she is still trying to make attempts at reconciliation. Bottom line - You don't want to be with this girl. Write down all the reasons why to remind yourself, and also remember that she is in the process of healing, as are you. It's natural to feel jealous but try not to let your heart rule your head at this time.
Kilty Posted July 17, 2011 Posted July 17, 2011 Just seems like she is n poss in a rebound Its only your concern if you want her back - and for the right reasons. If not then you ended the relationship so she can do whatever she likes.
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