ziggue Posted July 16, 2011 Posted July 16, 2011 (edited) He walks out on me after we had a few arguments. In December. Find out he gets a new girlfriend 3 months after our split up. Get a text two weeks after saying he loves me and wants me back. I ignore that at first. The a few weeks later I cave and confront him about it. He later denies it. Find out today. 6 months later he is engaged to her. . I honestly do not get it. I lived with this guy last year. Full on supported him financially and everything. I was never horrible to him or nagged or pushed or I never got a proposal. I got shat on in return after a few arguments. After I spoke up for myself when I was not happy about a couple of things. He could not handle it. Now he is getting married? Things are gonna be great for them after the Honeymoon period is over and they start fighting. All couples do it. Not unless she does not speak English. Saw on Facebook she looks fully Asian. Not attractive at all either. LoL. What gives. Edited July 16, 2011 by ziggue
wilsonx Posted July 16, 2011 Posted July 16, 2011 Agreed you dodged a bullet. I know it hurts a lot but you are right it might fail or it might not. You have to come to the realization that he has been playing games with you the past few months to soothe his ego. This may or may not help you let him go but you have to come to the realization that he made a decision on your relationship with him. From our perspective, it was a win/lose(destructive) decision where he won and you lost but in the end it was his decision to make. Instead of talking to you and being an adult and looking for a win/win decision some where he made a decision that hurt you and still hurts you. It's time for you to fully let go of him and not ever speak to or respond to him again. You really should want to find someone like yourself that wants to make win/win decisions as a couple because you definitely deserve so much better. I think you should go back to NC and never talk to or acknowledge him again.
Sugarkane Posted July 16, 2011 Posted July 16, 2011 Agreed you dodged a bullet. I know it hurts a lot but you are right it might fail or it might not. You have to come to the realization that he has been playing games with you the past few months to soothe his ego. This may or may not help you let him go but you have to come to the realization that he made a decision on your relationship with him. From our perspective, it was a win/lose(destructive) decision where he won and you lost but in the end it was his decision to make. Instead of talking to you and being an adult and looking for a win/win decision some where he made a decision that hurt you and still hurts you. It's time for you to fully let go of him and not ever speak to or respond to him again. You really should want to find someone like yourself that wants to make win/win decisions as a couple because you definitely deserve so much better. I think you should go back to NC and never talk to or acknowledge him again. I agree never talk to the idiot ever again.
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