11ni22 Posted July 16, 2011 Posted July 16, 2011 Hi All, I had a first date with this girl. We went to a restaurant and had a nice conversation over wine. I kissed her a few times afterwards. I was initiating contact every time. She didn't touch me on her own. She just didn't want to do passionate kissing/making out. She turned her head once when I tried to kiss. I suggested we hang out at my place, grab some pizza, watch a movie, etc. She had made plans with a friend for later in the night. She texted her friend (who was at the movies) to check but the friend never responded it seemed. I suggested we go ahead with the plan and hang out for an hour, chat or something. But, she was particular about leaving and that her friend would not be too happy if she bailed. Her friends like me by the way. I think I goofed around a little too much (I was just excited that she came out with me!). She said we could exchange texts and that there are many nights when we can hang out. I kissed her good night and she left. She texted me thirty minutes later and said, "Thanks for taking me out tonight btw. It was nice". I responded saying, "You're welcome. Hope you had a good time!". That's it. No more texts. I am afraid I was being a little pushy towards the end of the night (trying to kiss, hug, etc.). What are the chances of a second date? How long before I text/call her? How should I act if a second date actually happens? Advice please!
rafallus Posted July 17, 2011 Posted July 17, 2011 Maybe you were too pushy with trying to kiss. How much touching was going on prior to that?
Rinas Posted July 17, 2011 Posted July 17, 2011 I agree with rafallus. If she turned her head when you tried to kiss her it's likely that she didn't want to be too touchy on the first date. If you felt you were pushy you may have been, id wait for her to contact you again. If she doesn't contact you in a day or two you can message her again, but if there's no response id move on. Hope this turns out well for you!
murrpanda Posted July 17, 2011 Posted July 17, 2011 Some girls are uncomfortable with the idea of kissing on the first date (though I feel like if you're having a good time, what's the harm in a kiss?). I would wait a few days and then text her again and ask if she would like to get together. Don't text her until then, otherwise you'll seem sort of clingy.
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