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This girl added me on facebook and asked for my number. We texted for a couple days. Then one night she said she was tired and we said goodnight. That was a bout a week ago she never texted me again. So i figured she just wasn't that into me.

 

Then today she messages me on facebook "hey cutie :)" So idk wassup with her. I was looking at her status and it has been

 

I love hot guys

 

I think i love him

 

He makes me smile soo much

 

With those three status updates it makes me think that she has a boyfriend but idk for sure. And if she has a boyfriend why is she messaging me?*I don't get it.

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Well you got the part about her not messaging you cuz she probably met someone else.

 

But THAT guy isnt paying much attention to her, cuz hes got someone else he really likes. So she is writing those fb status' about him, but guess who she is using for a self esteem boost?

 

I say ride it out, bust her chops, dont answer all her texts, dont expect anything, but you can take the chance that she gave up on him. See what happens. She is initiating, so she either wants to give you a try, or she wants to use you for attention. So make a date with her if she makes an excuse, ignore her.

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Eddie's response is excellent. You can message back and tease her about her status updates. They are in plain view to you so there's no harm in asking/joking about it. And yeah, ask her on a date. You have nothing to lose by being forward. And if she hesitates or says no, it's her loss.

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Do you know this girl at all, or did her friend request come out of the blue?

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