MrElusive Posted July 15, 2011 Posted July 15, 2011 So lately I've been thinking of my ex quite a lot and the good memories we shared together. Just the other day I had to go for a drive as I was just couldn't get her out of my mind, much to my dismay I broke down in the mcdonalds car park(the one we used to go to), in turn I did feel much better afterwards, but the underlying question is why am I feeling like this 5/6 months after I stopped speaking to her? You also might be wondering why I went to the mcdonalds we used to go to, well I thought I needed to get her out of my system and by going to a familiar place we used to go to would be a good way to do it once and for all, nonetheless I didn't except to cry, it did help a lot though. I still feel as though if I were to cross her on the street or see a comment by her on facebook(on somebody else's status/photo as I don't have her on facebook) it would knock me a few steps back. Just wondering if this is normal 5/6 months down the line after initiating contact with the one you love? Will these bouts of relapsing go away?
RodG Posted July 16, 2011 Posted July 16, 2011 So lately I've been thinking of my ex quite a lot and the good memories we shared together. Just the other day I had to go for a drive as I was just couldn't get her out of my mind, much to my dismay I broke down in the mcdonalds car park(the one we used to go to), in turn I did feel much better afterwards, but the underlying question is why am I feeling like this 5/6 months after I stopped speaking to her? You also might be wondering why I went to the mcdonalds we used to go to, well I thought I needed to get her out of my system and by going to a familiar place we used to go to would be a good way to do it once and for all, nonetheless I didn't except to cry, it did help a lot though. I still feel as though if I were to cross her on the street or see a comment by her on facebook(on somebody else's status/photo as I don't have her on facebook) it would knock me a few steps back. Just wondering if this is normal 5/6 months down the line after initiating contact with the one you love? Will these bouts of relapsing go away? Hey, I can't really offer any advice as I'm only at two months post BU. But I assume it is perfectly normal to still feel that way after only 5 months. You'll just need more time. I guess that's all I can say. We were obviously more into them than they were us.
Author MrElusive Posted July 17, 2011 Author Posted July 17, 2011 Hey, I can't really offer any advice as I'm only at two months post BU. But I assume it is perfectly normal to still feel that way after only 5 months. You'll just need more time. I guess that's all I can say. We were obviously more into them than they were us. Yeah I guess you're right. Thanks for the advice.
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