is he interested? !!!

[confusedcarly]

right i own a sandwich shop and this one guy comes in everyday sometimes twice (this isnt unusual he is buildin around the corner) i hadnt spoke to him and he always seemed moody. but the other day i made a joke about him not coming in the day before and we have spoke everytime he comes in. he has the most beautifull smile i have ever seen and he seems to smile at me alot my mum saw the way he smiles today and she said he is interested cuz men dont smile like that to be nice. i always take the mick out of him for slacking in work and he enjoys our banter (i think) he came in today and he lifted his top right infront of me i didnt look but i dont know if he did it so i would look. he came in with his friend as as they left he said something but i dont know if it was about me. when he came in this mornin he leaned right into me to tell me his order . he has never done that before. he has got a silver band on his wedding finger but it doesnt look like a wedding ring. i sound silly sayin all this i dont think he would be interested in a size 18 girl but i do consider my self pretty and i make him smile. i feel like he has to look right into my eyes before he says good bye. does this guy like me or am i reading everything wrong??? he is so nice i cant get him out of my head i look forward to him coming in everyday x please help!!!

[Dorie]

I have never known a man to wear a band on his wedding ring finger WITHOUT it being a wedding ring. He may indeed fancy you but he can very well be married.

[Badenov]

Your best bet is to make casual conversation with him. ("what's your name?" "Do you work nearby?") Everyday think up a new question. Try to talk about more than just his order. Eventually he'll let more info out. Just be prepared if he says "Well, yesterday my WIFE says to me . . "

 

Just take this one slow, honey. Let it build naturally, don't force anything. If nothing else, you'll make a new friend.