jzaz Posted July 15, 2011 Posted July 15, 2011 ok, I know this girl. Ive seen her many times over the last 3 years but it was just to say hi. The other night she was in with a group of friends and we all went to get something to eat and for the first time I really talked to her for about 3 hours. All i can say is she is AWESOME. Incredibly hot too. The only thing is she dated one of my best friends about 3 months ago. He told me that she is extremely boaring and has no humor. i didnt see that when i talked to her. I think she may have changed her personality to get rid of him.(hes kind of a killjoy type & constantly complains about his lot in life) Now weve been talking and I really like her. will this pose a problem with the friend eventhough he sees her as "boring" and has nothing good to say about her?
lemonlegs Posted July 15, 2011 Posted July 15, 2011 It depends on how serious their relationship was, and who ended it with who, etc... I dated a guy, who was a complete and total idiot, and cheated on me... and about 3 months later my best friend was sneaking around behind my back talking and sleeping with him. I was furious because not only did I lose my virginity to him, but she was the one beside me calling him an idiot and a guy who didn't deserve me, etc. THAT was a horrible idea on her part... But, based on the dynamics of their relationship, you can decide for yourself. I would also advise asking your friend if he would mind BEFORE doing anything about, because it shows respect on your part.
GiselleDiann Posted July 15, 2011 Posted July 15, 2011 If your friend is truly your "friend" you will be upfront with him about your intentions. If he was not serious about her, chances are, he won't care about the two of you dating. But out of respect, you should sit down with him and let him know that you would like to pursue his ex. Good luck!
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