dylan797 Posted July 15, 2011 Posted July 15, 2011 I Dated my ex- gf for about two years. Ended primarily on her part. She said she was confused and needed time to figure out what she wanted. Basically the relationship just got stale. We broke up about a week ago. I was very understanding. Didn't beg or act depressed. Had no contact for four days. And then she texted me. Typical "How are you stuff"...I responded politely and positively. No contact for another two days and then she texted me the same thing, and told me she's been depressed lately and lonely and asked if I wanted to hang out the next day and have lunch. There was a good reason for her stopping by too. We bought a dog together and she wanted to see him and also we had an apt together and we needed to sign some paperwork to get her name off the lease. So I didn't think there was any real romantic notion in her mind about us hanging out. We hung out, had lunch and it was fine. I was nice and positive. We didn't really talk about our relationship until the end of lunch when she talked about stopping by next week to see our puppy and having lunch again. And I told her hanging out and talking probably wasn't the best idea because I still have feeling for her and I need to move on. In typical, selfish fashion she got upset and said I was immature for not wanting to try and be friends after the break up. Suffice to say I disagreed. She got the rest of her things from the apt, but left some shoes for some reason. We said goodbye and that was it. Then she texted me two hours later about some drama she was having at work. And we texted for a bit. I kept is short and simple. So my question is this: I'm doing no contact. But when my ex contacts me should I just ignore it? I always thought it would be rude to ignore someone's texts. I want to talk to her of course, but is not initiating contact enough? When she does contact me I'm always cheerful and never talk about the relaitonship really, though she loves to drop hints about the things she's doing (drinking, hanging out with new friends and etc.) It doesn't bother me honestly because she's free to do what she wants. But should I just ignore it all? And also we bought our puppy a few months ago. Should I just deny her any access to him from now on? That doesn't seem fair, but is it the best thing to do? ANy advice would be appreciated. THANKS
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